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On Giving Tuesday, Give The Gift Of Pleasure With These Sex Positions

With the weather getting colder, and the air becoming a little more festive, it’s safe to say that it’s officially the season of giving β€” pleasure, that is. With cuffing season underway, this is the perfect time of year to give your partner, or situationship, the gift that keeps on giving (wink). And, on Giving Tuesday, why not treat your special someone with one of these Giving Tuesday sex positions? I can’t think of one reason not to.

There’s no denying that hot, consensual sex is one of the universe’s greatest gifts β€” especially when it ends in an orgasm. And, in order to have great sex, all parties involved should have their needs met in terms of arousal. Through communication, and picking the right positions, giving the gift of pleasure (and an orgasm) is easier than you might think.

In the spirit of Giving Tuesday, I’ve rounded up five sex positions that are sure to pleasure both you and your partner. Whether you’re delivering pleasure orally, or experiencing it together, these positions are perfect for testing out on Giving Tuesday and beyond. Give your credit cards a break β€” ICYMI, the gift of an orgasm is free… and is there any better gift than feeling amazing after a hookup?

69

It’s the gift that keeps on giving β€” for everyone involved! 69 is a classic for a reason, and is a great position for both parties to give and receive pleasure. To do this, position yourselves on top of each other, with your mouths facing each other’s genitals. From there, well, you know what to do.

Upside-down Head Over the Bed

This position is a variation of 69 and is great for a duo that wants to spice things up. To start, have your partner lie down at the foot of the bed with their head at the end. Then, stand over them with your legs parted. In this position, you can bend over to pleasure your partner from above as they do so below.

Enhanced Missionary

I’ll admit it, I’m a missionary stan β€” and it’s even better if you enhance it with a toy. For the position, have your partner penetrate you from above per usual. Then, introduce your favorite vibrating toy: this can be as simple as a vibrating bullet, or even a vibrating C-ring for even more mutual pleasure.

Cowgirl

This position is all about you. Not only will it have you feeling your best, but it also gives your partner the best view of you. With your partner lying down, get on top and straddle them, feeling them penetrate you from underneath. Then, bounce up and down, grind, or do whatever makes you feel good β€” you’ve got the power, here.

Deep Doggy

Finally, this position might require some stretching beforehand β€” but it’s worth it. Like the typical doggy style, position yourself on all fours with your partner penetrating from behind. Then, to maximize the pleasure, lower yourself onto your forearms with your back arching as far as it can go. This allows for deeper penetration, which is amazing for both partners.

So, after donating to your favorite charity on Giving Tuesday, consider giving back to your partner (or sneaky link) with a super hot hookup. Trust me, they’ll love it.

julianna (she/her) is the wellness editor of her campus, where she oversees the wellness vertical and all things sex and relationships, wellness, mental health, astrology, and gen z.

during her undergraduate career at chapman university, julianna's work appeared in as if magazine and taylor magazine. additionally, her work as a screenwriter has been recognized and awarded at film festivals worldwide.

when she's not writing burning hot takes and spilling way too much about her personal life online, you can find julianna anywhere books, beers, and bands are.