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This Is Your Sign To Get Bold Over Text With These Spicy Truth Or Dare Questions

Call me a middle schooler, but a good game of Truth Or Dare is my preferred method of flirting — at least in the beginning stages of a relationship. I know, I know, I’m almost a college graduate, but there is some sort of insane courage I get being able to ask spicy Truth Or Dare questions within the safety of a game — especially when I’m texting a crush. 

All jokes aside, this can be a great way to get to know someone better and in a fun way. From my experience playing this game, often some of the truth questions lead to deeper conversations that go on for hours. And, in the end, I feel like I’ve learned something I never would have if we had just been talking normally. As for the dares,  I have so many fond memories that make me giggle from the silly things I’ve done or dared others to do. I’m telling you, it’s a classic game for a reason!

Also, BFFR, this game is a lifesaver if you want to spice things up with a crush over text,  because the “how was your day” texts get boring real quick. So, whether you’re trying to keep the night going after a date or the spark alive over the holiday break, here are some cute, flirty, and, of course, steamy Truth Or Dare prompts to play with your crush.

Truth: What’s your ideal first date? 

Let’s start off nice and easy. 

Dare: Text me a fantasy of yours. 

I mean it might be good info to know…

Truth: What’s your favorite feature of mine? 

A surefire way to make you blush. 

Dare: Hard launch me on your story.

Your DMs are about to be flooded. 

Truth: Describe your perfect kiss.

Flirty and informational, this question has it all. 

Dare: Text me your best pick-up line. 

Test out their rizz. 

Truth: Have you ever had a dream about me? 

This could be cute or the start of something else…either way you’re winning. 

Dare: Take me on a date. 

Be bold, bestie!

Truth: What’s the boldest thing you’ve ever done to impress someone? 

This totally gives you some insight into what might be to come.

Dare: Text your BFF something explicit and say “oops wrong person.” 

There’s a reason my mom calls me a drama queen. 

Truth: What are you wearing right now?

Listen, cliches aren’t bad. 

Dare: Send me a voice memo of you saying something flirty.

Does anyone else melt when they hear their crush’s voice… just me? 

Truth: What are your thoughts on foreplay?

Follow-up question: What’s your favorite type of foreplay?

Dare: Text me a love poem.

For my hopeless romantics.

Truth: Do you have any scandalous tattoo(s)? 

The perfect lead-in question.

Dare: Show me your scandalous tattoo(s).

IDK about you, but seeing is believing. 

Truth: Do you have any fetishes?

Is it getting hot in here?

Dare: Change your lock screen to a picture of us for 24 hours

Bestie, I’m gushing for you.

Truth: Where is the riskiest place you’ve done it?

See if they’re as freaky as you!

Dare: Kiss me the next time you see me. 

Let’s cut to the chase here…

Truth: What was your first impression of me?

If you wanna get hot and heavy, but in the emotional kind of way.  

Dare: Text me a dirty joke. 

Hey Siri, please play “Let’s Get It Started” by the Black Eyed Peas.

 Truth: What’s your biggest turn-on?

BRB, filling this information away for later.

Dare: Screenshot your browser history.

Caught red-handed.

Truth: What’s your biggest turn-off?

Consider it a “note to self.”

Dare: Facetime me and do a striptease. 

I mean, take things to the next level.

Truth: Have you ever filmed a sex tape? 

I dare you to ask them this.

Dare: Send me a dirty picture. 

Nothing wrong with this classic question.

Truth: What’s your favorite position?

No bad first time for you two.

Dare: Come over here and kiss me.

Who knows where this might lead to…

Bryanna is a Her Campus National Writer, she composes articles for the wellness section weekly covering all things health, and sex & relationships. She also occasionally dips her toes into the culture section for more timely breaking news as needed. Bryanna is a current senior at Baldwin Wallace University where she is majoring in music theatre, but much like the famous line from Hamilton "why do you write like you're running out of time" Bryanna's life would be incomplete without working on articles for Her Campus and various other online publications. She is currently working on her debut poetry book "Love Letters I Never Delivered". When not writing or on stage you can find Bryanna making a perfectly curated Spotify playlist, teeing off at the local mini golf course, or curling up with a totally predictable romance novel. To Keep up with her: @bryannacuthill or https://bryannacuthill.com 💌 🪩🥂