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Prepare For Your Crush To Spill The Tea With These Juicy Truth Or Dare Questions

I’ll admit it — I’m not a huge fan of dares. Call me what you want, but in a game of Truth Or Dare, I would much rather have someone spill the tea rather than do something silly for a quick laugh. Although I’m not one for sharing my own secrets, I always keep an arsenal of juicy truth questions to use in a game of Truth Or Dare, especially when I’m playing with a crush.

Like Never Have I Ever, Truth Or Dare is a great game to play when you want to get to know someone better — even in the romantic sense. However, asking your crush to spill their deepest, darkest secrets IRL can be pretty intimidating. Luckily, we live in the day and age of text messages, Snapchat, and IG DMS, so you can be as bold as you want. (But remember, screenshots exist, bestie!) Still, I’m a big proponent of playing this game in person for a little extra tension.

If you’re looking to get closer to your crush, or want to heat things up a little bit with the person you’ve got your eye on, then look no further. I’ve rounded up 20 juicy truth questions to ask your crush in a game of Truth Or Dare, so you can find out how they really feel.

Do I make you nervous?

This is sure to give ’em butterflies.

What do you wear to bed?

Birthday suit! Birthday suit!

What are your relationship red flags?

This is a go-to, TBH.

What’s your biggest regret?

Get ready to learn something new.

If you could swap lives with one person, who would it be?

I already have my answer.

What’s the worst pain you’ve ever been in?

Emotional, physical — it’s up to them.

What’s your craziest party story?

I wanna hear this one.

Do you have a favorite porn category? What is it?

No kink-shaming allowed, here.

Do you consider yourself selfless or selfish?

Be honest.

Did you ever have a crush on a cartoon character?

I mean, Danny Phantom had it goin’ on.

Do you have any tattoos?

Hopefully, they have a secret one to show you.

Have you ever ghosted someone?

Nobody is perfect.

What’s something you’ve never told anyone?

And keep that secret ’till the grave!

Did you ever have a crush on a teacher?

It’s more common than you’d think.

Have you ever been in love?

Nothing unites us like heartbreak.

What are you most proud of?

This question opens the door to amazing conversations.

Do you fall in love easily?

Swoon.

What do you want to be remembered for?

I love this one.

How do you like to be comforted when you’re upset?

This can give you some insight for later.

Is it OK if I kiss you?

A fantastic closer. Consent is sexy!

Let the games begin!

Julianna Marie is the Wellness Editor at Her Campus — leading the site's coverage of health, wellness, sex, relationships, and mental health. Additionally, she oversees our College Try franchise, the LGBTQIA+ vertical (Free To Be) and occasionally covers astrology, entertainment, fashion and beauty, and internet culture.

Julianna's work as a screenwriter and filmmaker has also received recognition at major film festivals such as LA Shorts, Tokyo International Film Festival, the NYC Horror Film Festival, and more. Currently, she is in the process of writing her debut novel.

She graduated with a B.F.A in Screenwriting from Chapman University's Dodge College of Film and Media Arts in May 2022, where she formed very strong opinions on movies and a love for the beach. (She's a Pisces.)

When she's not writing burning hot takes and writing about her personal life for the masses (sorry, mom), you can find Julianna cooking, going out with the girls, doing yoga the morning after going out with the girls, watching reality television with her fiancé, playing chess, or advocating for the food scene in Pittsburgh, PA. It really is that good, BTW.

If you like blurry Instagram Stories and food reviews, you can follow her on Instagram at @juliannammarie.