‘Tis the season… for some spicy gift-giving. Let’s be real: When it comes to shopping for a friend, sometimes the typical ideas — a candle, a mug, some fuzzy socks — can get pretty stale. So, if you’re ready to bring some fun (and a lil’ bit of edge) to your holiday gifting list, then you can start with these sex-positive gifts for your friends.
As the resident Samantha Jones type in my girl group (given my job, you would think I’m a Carrie, but miss me with that bullsh*t), sex-positive gifts have become my signature during the holidays. Not only is gifting something like a nice vibrator or quality condoms from a woman-owned brand a fun way to connect with my girls, but when you think about it, these things are necessities in one way or another. Think about it: A majority of us have sex (whether that’s solo or partnered). And, when it comes to having sex, the absolutely best things you can be are informed and equipped.
But that’s not to say that you should just buy your besties sex accessories willy-nilly. Consent is still important here! These kinds of gifts should only be given to your close friends, and only if you discuss sex and sexuality openly and frequently. Remember, the key here is intention: If you’re giving a sex-positive gift as a gag to embarrass your friend, or if you’re giving it to someone that you’ve never talked to about sex, then just skip it altogether. Trust.
That said, if you’re looking for the perfect gifts for your fellow sex-posi besties, you’ve come to the right place. Here are seven sex-positive gifts to give out to your friends this holiday season.
Dame Sex Socks ($8)
Yes, that’s right: sex socks! Did you know that ~80% of couples reach orgasm while wearing socks, as opposed to only ~50% managing to climax without them? Well, sexual wellness brand Dame did, and they created specialty socks for the bedroom. (Not to mention, they’re actually comfy AF, too.)
plusOne vibrating bullet ($16)
Bullet vibes are tried and true for a reason. This classic from plusOne is perfect for travel, and is a great small gift to give to your besties. But don’t let its size fool you — this one packs a punch!
Jems Condoms ($33)
These are my favorite condoms of all time: They’re thin, comfortable, and woman-owned! They come in a pack of 48, which is ideal for the friend who loves to stay prepared. (And we love them for that.)
Taboo Uncensored ($14)
Don’t you love a classic game turned dirty? This NSFW take on Taboo is perfect to play with your besties — maybe after some liquid courage (if you’re 21+, of course).
Vibrating C-Ring ($45)
C-rings aren’t competition in the bedroom — they’re teammates. This one from Promsecent is great to give to the besties who want to add just a little bit of spice to their sex lives.
Quinn Subscription ($60)
Erotic audio FTW! What’s there not to love about your fave celebs (and other talented creators) acting in smutty stories? A year-long subscription to Quinn is just $60 — and it’s the gift that keeps on giving.
Orgasmic Manifestation Scented Candle ($30)
And finally, for friends who want to get laid, give them the (scented) power of manifestation. This candle from Smile Makers Collection smells like, well, sex… or, more specifically, vetiver, oud, spices, sandalwood, and incense.
TBH, you can’t go wrong with any of ’em!