IMHO, whoever said that diamonds were a girl’s best friend was lying — it’s vibrators. And in 2023, there are lots of spicy ways to incorporate pleasure, and a ton of naughtiness, into your dating life. Feeling like you desperately need to spice things up? Enter: remote-controlled vibrators.
Putting all of your pleasure in your partner’s hands, (or vice versaI don’t know your prerogative) is a super hot way to take things up a notch in your sex life. Picture this: You are out to dinner and your partner has control of giving you pleasure through a remote control under the table — it’s seriously, like, straight out of a smut novel. Not only that, but it’s the perfect exercise in trust when you’re looking to try something a little kinkier.
Of course, remote-controlled vibrators are also a great option for the bedroom too. This type of play is a fun, easy-to-use intro to bondage that’s exciting for both you and your partner. Oh, and you can totally use a remote-controlled vibrator for a hands-free solo sesh, too.
Whether you’re new to public play, or a kink-exploring vet, here are 12 remote-control vibrators that are perfect for public, or bedroom, play.
- We-Vibe Moxie+
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This ergonomic vibe ($111) is both waterproof and ultra-quiet making it perfect to add a little spice to your dates.
- Turn Me On Rechargeable Bullet
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With 36 different patterns of vibration, this bullet ($24) is sure to add some toe-curling pleasure to your life.
- Wearable Panty Vibrator
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Slip this vibe ($26) into your panties for a mix of clit and vaginal stimulation through an app that your partner controls. This sounds like a lot of fun for a long-distance relationship!
- Stainless Steel Vibrating Butt Plug
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If you want to try public play, this stainless steel butt plug ($24) might be the perfect place to start. Slip it in and enjoy 10 different remote-controlled vibration settings.
- Lelo Tor™ 3
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Bring a little pleasure for your partner too with this vibrating C-ring ($120) that features eight settings.
- LOVENSE Lush 3
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Meant to target your G Spot, this vibe ($119) offers internal stimulation through an app that can be used by you or a partner.
- Heywybb Wearable Vibe
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If you are looking to bring your public play to the next level, this vibe ($36) combines vibrations and thrusting motions to make you feel all kinds of pleasure.
- QIFEVIRL App-Controlled vibrator
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Perfect for getting both internal and external stimulation, this vibe ($25) reaches for your clit and your G-spot. The app works both in close proximity and long distance.
- Bang! Ultra Powerful Remote Control Bullet
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With 21 combinations of speed and vibration, this bullet ($30) packs a lot of punch and pleasure.
- Playboy Pleasure Vibrating Kegel Exerciser
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This vibe ($70) is discreet, making public play easy and pleasurable. Its design offers the benefits of kegel workouts, too, making your pelvic floor stronger for more intense orgasms in the future.
- Eve’s Rechargeable Vibrating Panty
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If you want to try public play, but aren’t sure where to start, slip on these panties ($70) and hand your partner the remote. They might look like regular panties but they feature a vibe with 12 settings that will find your most sensitive spots. An instant add-to-cart, IMHO.
- Pivot By We-Vibe Vibrating Ring
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This vibrating ring ($110) will definitely become a go-to toy, with an app that allows you to customize the vibrations.
Remember: it’s always a good time to embrace something new and have fun while getting down and dirty, if that’s what you’re comfortable with. Practice safe sex, and have fun!