This Is Your Sign To Make A *Spicy* Bucket List With Your Partner

Couples often look for ways to spice things up and inject a bit of spontaneous and exciting energy into their relationship. While romantic dinners and cozy nights are wonderful, sometimes you need to get a little spicy and explore a more playful and exciting side to your relationship. Enter: these naughty bucket list ideas for couples.

This isn’t just about grand gestures, but more about a shared experience that ignites passion and grows your connection between you and your partner in a vulnerable and exhilarating way. This naughty bucket list will encourage you to step outside of your comfort zone together, fostering intimacy and a deeper sense of shared adventure. The goal behind this list is to help you explore new facets of your relationship and truly discover what turns you and your partner on the most. 

So, if you’re ready to add a thrilling new level to your sex life, grab your partner and get ready to brainstorm. We’ve compiled a list of over 40 naught bucket list ideas, ranging from playfully suggestive to downright daring, to inspire your own personalized naughty bucket list. Get ready to laugh, blush, and fall even more in love with your partner as you begin these exciting adventures together. 

46 naughty bucket list ideas for couples:

1. Go skinny dipping in a natural body of water at night.
2. Write down your most extreme sexual fantasies and swap them to read aloud, then discuss which ones you’d like to try.
3. Blindfold your partner and use ice cubes or feathers to tease them relentlessly. 
4. Have a “naked chef” night, cooking dinner with your partner with no clothes on.
5. Send each other explicit texts throughout a busy day, building anticipation. 
6. Spend an hour in an adult store, picking out the most outrageous items to try together.
7. Have sex in every non-bedroom room of your house in one night. 
8. Role-play a scenario where one of you is a “stranger” picked up at a bar. 
9. Take a shower together and focus solely on intense touch and stimulation. 
10. Pick out an R-rated film for each other and act out a scene. 
11. Play a strip card game, with consequences for losing.
12. Have sex in a hot tub or a pool.
13. Try out a new, more adventurous kink or fetish that pushes your comfort zone.
14. Whisper dirty talk to each other in public. 
15. Play a game of “truth or dare” with sexual desires. 
16. Research and discuss the idea of consensual non-monogamy or explore threesome fantasies. 
17. Have sex in a car. 
18. Create an explicit “audio only” recording for your partner when they least expect it. 
19. Have a daring quickie in a risky public setting. 
20. Take a vacation to a clothing-optional resort or embark on a nude cruise. 
21. Give each other sensual massages with “happy endings.”
22. Have a professional boudoir photoshoot and surprise your partner with the images. 
23. Have a “yes day” where you both agree to any consensual and escalating naughty requests.
24. Try a new sex position every day for a week.
25. Take a couple’s pole dancing class. 
26. Experiment with sensory deprivation (soft ties, handcuffs, blindfolds, etc.).
27. Try out new lingerie or underwear sets. 
28. Give each other a lap dance. 
29. Create a “sexy playlist” for your intimate moments. 
30. Surprise each other with a new piece of lingerie or sex toys.
31. Give anal sex a shot. 
32. Buy a waterproof vibrator and take a bath together. 
33. Find a secluded but public spot and engage in discreet but intense foreplay.
34. Create a list of 5-7 different sex acts and positions. Set a timer and see how many you can complete in that set amount of time.
35. Pick out a provocative outfit for each other to wear, then engage in play while wearing them. 
36. Have phone sex. 
37. Play with body paint.
38. Have a sexy game of Twister.
39. Try out different kinds of lube together.
40. Cover the bed in rose petals.  
41. Try a little bit of consensual choking, gagging, and breath play. 
42. Kiss outside in the rain. 
43. Camp out and do it in a tent. 
44. Masturbate in front of each other. 
45. Try out remote-controlled panties. 
46. Write a sexy love letter to each other. 

Stepping outside of your comfort zone and adding playful excitement to your relationship can lead to exciting discoveries. This bucket list is not just a list of acts but an invitation to explore new levels of intimacy, communication, and shared adventure with your partner. 

By embracing this level of vulnerability and daring to try new things together, you’re not just spicing things up in the bedroom, you’re building a stronger, more passionate bond that will deepen your connection with each other and create unforgettable and fun memories. So, now that you’ve read this list, grab your partner and create your own personalized list for the next time you want to try something spicy!

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