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The Best and Worst of Being a Commuter

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Towson chapter.

Whether you’re living at home, in an apartment or a condo, if you are living off campus then you know what it’s like to be a commuter. Commuters are the people who walk, take a bus, or drive to class everyday. They struggle to find parking spots on campus, they pack a lunch or bring money to school because they don’t have a meal plan, and they spend long breaks just sitting around campus since it’s not worth going back home for only 2 hours between classes.

 

I am a commuter. It hasn’t been the easiest experience in the world, but it also hasn’t been the hardest. My freshman year I had the priviledge of living in a college dorm, and it was great. I made tons of friends, didn’t have to worry about groceries or money, and could just walk back to my dorm when waiting for my next class. One of my best memories of college so far came from living on-campus  

 

Don’t get me wrong, living off-campus is way better than living in dorms, but life is so much easier when you only have to deal with a small room that is easy to clean, Living on-campus makes not having a car okay because you could get everything on campus, and you had friends that lived right down the hall to eat dinner with. However, living in a condo or apartment comes with a lot of responsibilities. You have to make sure you’re keeping your place clean (especially so your roommate doesn’t get mad at your messiness!), paying rent on time, and you have to keep in mind that you have neighbors that may be older or have children.

The greatest things about being a commuter have nothing to do with school, but more with your lifestyle and social life. Living in your own place allows you the chance to have more space than you did in your dorm (and even some of the on-campus apartments). In an apartment you have a kitchen and a family room, and some lucky people get to have their own room and bathroom. Regardless of the setup of your place, you have the option of leaving your room for another room in your apartment! If your roommate is sleeping in her room you have the chance to watch TV in another room. If she has friends over and you need to study, you can just go into your room. Roommate relationships aren’t so tense and aggravating when you each have your own space to do what you want and you aren’t in one another’s faces 24/7.

You also have the chance to cook awesome (and healthy) meals when you live off campus. Your fridge has 1000x more space than the mini-fridges found in dorms, and the kitchen at your place has awesome appliances and no freaky, disgusting messes and leftovers that your other less considerate dorm mates tend to leave around for others to clean up. Having a kitchen to yourself allows you to give yourself time to experiment with cooking. You can figure out what you are good at, and what you need to work on. You have the option to choose the items and foods you get to eat everyday, and can find out where that food comes from. You don’t have to worry about how they are being prepared and cooked. You can also have dinner parties with friends, and can bond with your roommates through cooking. 

 

Living off-campus also gets you out of that university bubble. Once you’re out of it, you realize that there is so much more to experience outside of the school. Sure when you live on-campus you take a few weekends or have a free day to go into the city, or to take a hike on a trail, but when you live off-campus you realize you have more time to get out. It’s even easier when you have your own car or are in walking distance of everything. I live in walking distance of the movie theater, Barnes and Noble, a bunch of restaurants, and the bars. It is so easy to go out to these places and just relax or have fun, while if you were on campus it would take finding someone to drive you. As a commuter you are able to discover new places that appeal to you such as your quiet place or your favortie hangout spot. You find special places that are near and dear to your heart, and that no one understands the way you do. 

Of course, there are also some negative aspects of living off-campus. Living off-campus means that getting to school is a lot harder, which means leaving your apartment or house extra early so that you can get to class on time. This can be very difficult especially when your school (cough, cough Towson) has horrible parking. Some people wake up and leave an hour or two before their class actually starts so they can get a good parking spot near the building their class is in. When this doesn’t work some students have to park very far away and then must walk to their class which results in them being late. Parking for class can be stressful and also expensive for a commuter! 

 
Living off-campus can sometimes result in losing touch with friends that you once used to be very close with. It doesn’t mean that they don’t want to see you anymore, and it doesn’t mean that you have lost touch forever. It just means that you have very different schedules from those people, and sometimes don’t have the time to see them. When you aren’t on campus you are less likely to run into those friends, and the fact that they may also be living off-campus may mean that it’s harder to see them. You may have fewer friends that are closer to you, but you realize that those are the people you count on the most and want around you during the good and bad times. If there are old friends you miss in your life, it doesn’t take much to reach out! Most of the time, those we miss are just a phone call away.
 
Lastly, extracurricular activities can also be really hard to keep up with when you are a commuter. Sometimes event and meeting times don’t correlate to your schedule, and can really throw off your routine with bizarre days and times. When you live off-campus you just want to go to your classes, get them over with, maybe go to lunch with a friend, and then head back home. Extracurricular days can sometimes get in the way, and as much as you love them you realize that they take up a lot of time as a commuter. On some Wednesday’s I leave for class at 9 a.m. and don’t get home until 8:30p.m.. Extracurricular’s can get hectic when you have a crammed schedule, but the fact that they are vital to your happiness on campus makes them totally worth it. 
 
Overall, being a commuter has its pros and cons. The most important thing about living in an apartment or condo is realizing that you are completing a new and exciting milestone in your life. You are becoming an adult, learning how to do so many different things all at the same time as a commuter. The best that you are gaining from this experience is learning how to be responsible for your actions, learning about who you are as a person and what you want to improve on in your life. 
 

 

I'm a sophomore at Towson University, and am originally from Gaithersburg, MD. I'm double majoring in advertising and public relations, with a minor in marketing and Italian. I love fashion, photography, playing the violin, listening to all types of music, history, and going on adventures with friends.