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The Self-Love Languages

Riya Patel Student Contributor, University of Texas - Austin
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Texas chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

1. Quality Time

Spending time with yourself and doing things you love. Find warmth in the time you spend with yourself.

  • taking yourself on dates 
  • watching a meaningful movie you enjoy 
  • enjoying the sunset 
  • listening to music 
  • cooking/baking

2. Words of Affirmation

Use yourself to build yourself up. Give yourself positive talks and encourage yourself.

  • performing positive self-talk 
  • journaling
  • watching TED-Talks 
  • keeping a gratitude jar 
  • complimenting yourself

3. Physical Touch

Focusing on your physical well-being and on things that make your body feel good.

  • building a healthy diet 
  • exercising   
  • taking dance classes 
  • using soft blankets/ wearing comfortable clothing
  • working on a skincare routine

4. Acts of Service 

Give yourself what you need when you need it. Do things for yourself. Take care of your basic needs.

  • going to therapy 
  • cleaning your room 
  • making a schedule for the week 
  • preparing healthy meals 
  • delegating activities 

5. Receiving Gifts

Spending money on things that make you happy. Don’t be afraid to treat yourself.

  • taking yourself out for dinner 
  • buying flowers for yourself
  • going on a solo trip 
  • enroll in fun classes 
  • investing in yourself
Hi, I hope you find me through my words :)