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Long-distance relationships are not for the weak, especially when it comes to sexy time. Like, WTF are the logistics of intimacy when you can’t get it on IRL? Turning your partner on when you aren’t there to give them a smooch is an entirely new ballgame. But being up for an LDR means being down for a challenge, and thankfully, a well-placed spicy text can go a long way.

Whether you are getting your partner hyped up for your next visit, prepping for some hot phone sex, or just sending a little surprise at work, spicy texts are a must-have asset in your arsenal of long-distance loving. Because nothing beats the feeling of knowing your pookie is thinking about you and all the things they want to do with you. Between anticipation and horniness, sending one of these is guaranteed to have your partner tripping over their own feet in the grocery store. So, I compiled a list of the best texts to get your faraway fling all hot and bothered throughout the day. Some are romantic, some are lewd, and all are certifiably spicy. 

Without further ado, here are 21 spicy texts for your long-distance relationship. Who knows? You might just get ‘em to catch a flight to see you.

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21 Spicy Texts For Long-Distance Relationships:

  1. I’m distracted thinking of the way you looked last time I saw you.
  2. This is your reminder of what is waiting for you in [name of your city[… [insert sexy photo here]
  3. I can’t stop thinking about the last time we f*cked.
  4. Falling asleep with you on the brain.
  5. You in my bed would’ve made this morning so much better.
  6. I’ve got something hot planned for next time I see you. I think you’ll like it.
  7. I’m thinking about that noise you make before you O.
  8. I had the hottest dream about you last night.
  9. BTW, I’m sleeping naked.
  10. I bought [insert sexy item] for the next time you come over.
  11. What would you do to me right now if I were there?
  12. I wish I could crawl into bed with you right now.
  13. I loved seeing you wearing your [lingerie/briefs/bra/nothing] last time.
  14. I have a new idea to try in the bedroom.
  15. Guess what I’m not wearing right now?
  16. Next time I see you, we aren’t leaving bed for hours.
  17. My hands miss you.
  18. Guess the color of my underwear. (Charlie XCX, who?)
  19. I need your mouth on me right now.
  20. I was thinking about you in the shower last night.
  21. The distance stinks, but sexting you is a perk.

When the distance feels long, that’s your cue to send a text that makes it feel like your partner is right next to you. So, don’t be afraid to get bold — and get a little spicy. After all, you can consider this as your warm-up until you see each other again. Wink.

Ginger Koehler

UFL '25

Ginger Koehler is an editorial Intern at Her Campus. She writes for the Wellness section, mostly covering sex and relationships, and occasionally branching out to other sections.

Ginger is a student at the University of Florida. Her majors are Journalism and Theories and Politics of Sexuality, with specializations in women’s studies and magazines. Beyond Her Campus, Ginger has worked as a sex columnist for four other publications. When she’s not writing, Ginger is hosting sex education workshops for her peers at UF.

Friends compare Ginger to Carrie Bradshaw, but she fancies herself as more of a Samantha. In her free time, Ginger enjoys taking hip-hop fitness classes and reading cheesy fantasy novels.

She is liable to talk explicitly about sexual health to anyone who will listen. Her favorite self-care activity is doing unspeakable things to people she doesn’t like on The Sims 4.