Let’s get right to the point: A well-executed sext or dirtily mumbled line over the phone is always a way to add a little spice to a relationship. Contrary to popular belief, phone sex isn’t just reserved for an exclusive relationship, friends with benefits and situationships can also use a bit of spice! However, phone sex and sexting can be extremely intimidating, especially for a newbie. Before reading further, just remember that it’s OK to own your sexuality, even when you’re trying something new. Phone sex is a great way to own your sexual energy and even introduce your kinky fantasies before trying them out in the bedroom. Is it hot in here? Can someone open a window?
Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, or just want to try something new, here are a few favorite phone sex lines and sext-starters to use. Put these in your pocket and whip ’em out whenever you’re settling in for a naughty FaceTime or phone call, or if you feel the need to send a frisky text. Either way, it’s about to get steamy. Warning: These are sure to have things hot and heavy in no time, trust me.
- “Tell me what you want to do to me.”
Get both of you excited as they describe every naughty little thing they want to do — consensually, OFC. This is also a great opportunity to get a feel of your sexual partner’s kinks, fantasies, and whatever else they may be into.
- “What are you wearing?”
A cliché line, but an incredible go-to. This question gives your partner the opportunity to either describe their current sexy outfit, or get straight to the birthday suit. (Pro-tip: The best answer if you’re asked this question? “Come home and find out.”
- “I’m touching my ___.”
No explanation is necessary for this one.
- “All I want to do To you is ____.”
This line is the perfect way to describe the fantasies that you’re having about the person on the other end of the phone. Show your kinky side!
- “Check your snap.”
The perfect set-up for sending them naughty little reminders of everything they’re missing.
- “This is what’s waiting for you.”
A great caption for a naughty pic, IMHO.
- “I want to cover you in ____.”
Nothing is better than getting dirty — literally. This line is a great way to tell them all the ways you plan on getting messy whenever you see them: Whipped cream, chocolate sauce, the world is yours. Let that freak flag fly.
- “I’m so turned on.”
Obviously, this is the goal, but a little verbal acknowledgment never hurts. Bonus points if you add a breathy moan at the end if you’re on the phone.