It’s safe to assume that at some point in almost all college careers, every student has felt like an imposter. I’ve seen my peers commit themselves to and succeed at a million things throughout the years, yet still along the way they question every move they make. That, in a nutshell, is imposter syndrome.
Self-doubt creeps into the unlikeliest of moments and causes you to begin to feel that you’re not good enough and don’t deserve any of your successes. You know, those moments where you’re on top of everything – you’re making it to class on time, you’ve completed all your assignments and haven’t called in ‘sick’ yet – but something still isn’t quite right, whether it’s academically, socially or professionally.
I feel this often; it creeps in after I’ve submitted an article, or when I self-identify as a writer. However, I’m trying to get better at combating those feelings. Even though they are normal, there’s no need for them to be in the back of my mind after every written word. Moreover, as one wise professor told me, “You write because you love it and because you’re damn good at it.”
Here are tips on how to overcome imposter syndrome, for writers and beyond.
Talk to someone
It might sound simple, but expressing your feelings to someone you trust can make a difference on how to view a situation.
Remind yourself of your achievements
Even if you question your achievements, you have to remind yourself of how you got there. It wasn’t by pure luck or magic – it was your hard work and determination.
Stop comparing yourself
Theodore Roosevelt has been quoted as saying, “Comparison is the thief of joy,” and it’s the truth. As difficult as it is not to compare yourself and your work, it’ll be a weight lifted off your shoulders once you do.
Remember that nobody is perfect
Perfection isn’t possible. You can get close, but there will always be that .01 percent left, and that is OK – at least you tried.
Remember that others feel this way, too. You’re qualified and amazing at what you do, no matter what.