For those of us who are constantly referred to as “extra,” we all know the daily struggle of trying to be true to ourselves while not annoying the people around us.
To some people, we laugh too loud, sing too much, plan too much, and just go overboard with everything. But it is just our way. We are intense individuals who put our heart, soul, blood, sweat and tears into whatever we do in life. Since when is that a bad thing?
Besides being the spice of life, there are so many great things about your passionate spirit.
1. You have no issue with expressing your opinions.
No matter how dramatic you might seem to others, you’re willing to share your opinions to anyone who will listen. There is no fear of coming on strong or opinionated. And with all of your overthinking, you have an opinion on just about everything. From why crunchy peanut butter just doesn’t make any sense to providing some hard-hitting political commentary, you will always have something to say.
2. You know how to make the people around you feel appreciated.
Everything is celebrated! First internships, jobs, good grades, bad grades, breakups or friend-anniversaries. Everyone in your life is special, and you make sure they know the fact. Any accomplishment or friend in need of cheering up, you will be there with bells, whistles and of course, cake.
3. Your clothes reflect your unapologetic, self-expression.
You dress for yourself, first and foremost. You have fun with your style and dress to match your mood. If you like it, then it works.
4. You are prepared for virtually any situation.
Your backup plan has a backup plan. You have thought of everything and went over almost every possible scenario imaginable. You’re a bit much, true but everyone will be thankful when you save the day because you came prepared.
5. You take care of your loved ones. You are often the “mom” of the group.
You are naturally nurturing and responsible, so you make sure everyone is okay, has eaten and periodically ask “do you need a nap?”. You always go the extra mile.
6. You have no problem with alone time because you have a rich interior life.
More time for overanalyzing, planning and thinking up dramatic scenarios. Yay!
7. When you say “sorry”, it is memorable.
Apologies are super personalized and extravagant. Your sense of guilt is as an intense, as your love. You will pull out all the stops to fix any issue, big or small. Nothing must come between the special bonds you have created.
Being intense is not a bad thing. It can be so fun and useful when channeled correctly. Don’t feel pressured to box yourself up or change to try and be everyone’s cup of tea. There is something truly amazing about a free spirit. Try your best to be yourself. You can never please everyone, so why even pretend?