Adulting can be hard. Setting up appointments, paying taxes and going to work or school can all feel so overwhelming. On top of that, there are groceries to buy, email to send, bills to pay; it’s a never ending list of responsibilities. What if you didn’t have to do it alone? The truth is everyone around you is going through the same things, even your friends. So why not tackle it together? Turning everyday adulting tasks into a group activity can make them more bearable and something you actually look forward to. Here are five adulting activities you can do with your friends to have some fun when dealing with the stress of life:
#1 Admin Night
Gather all your friends, bring your laptops, planners, and any organization tools and get to work. Take turns going over what tasks you’ve been putting off and get to work. To make it even better, gather around some food or a sweet treat as extra motivation. This can help knock out tasks such as booking appointments, unsubscribing from subscriptions, setting budgets, and so much more. By doing this with friends, you guys can hold each other accountable and create a stress free environment for these tasks to be taken care of.Â
#2 Attending Practical Workshops
Been meaning to learn a new skill? Attend a workshop with friends. This can be anything from a cooking class to a self-defense class, or something as simple as a pottery class. Taking time to learn new skills will help you grow more and could teach you some good life lessons. It’s easy to get in the habit of just working and going to bed but setting time aside every couple of weeks will keep you and your friends more sane and better connected. A good idea would be to have a rotating workshop where a new friend picks each meetup location.Â
#3 Active Errands
Have tons of spots to stop by bringing a friend along. Trust me, they probably have some stops to make as well. Make normally boring trips like post office visits or RMV appointments more fun. If you and your friends have the same errands to run, you can kill two birds with one stone. The extra motivation of having a friend there can push you to get those tasks done. End off the trip with a coffee as a reward.Â
#4 Meal Prep Sundays
Gather your friends to cook meals for the week together. Each person can contribute one recipe and everyone swaps meals. You’ll end up bringing home enough food for the week and have a fun time trying out your friends’ recipes. By doing this, we can turn a tedious chore into a fun one that saves time, money, and allows you to try new foods.Â
#5 Financial Check In Hangout
This one can be daunting but, when done with those you love and trust, it can be a great help! Check in with friends and review budgets, track spending, and set goals. Talking about finances can be stressful but by doing it with friends, it can normalize our realities and build accountability by taking the shame out of financial stress.Â
We all have to do adult things but it doesn’t have to be solo. Tackling life with your friends can make even the most mundane tasks easier and more enjoyable. Next time you are dreading your to-do list, reach out to a friend and try one of these activities. I promise you that your future self will thank you and you might just grow closer to your friends.Â