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Refining Your College Lifestyle: Strategies for Feeling More Put Together

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Rutgers chapter.

Navigating the labyrinth of college life is a journey filled with ups, downs, and the undeniable truth that none of us truly have it all together. The chaotic whirlwind of classes, social activities, and the constant ebb and flow of responsibilities can leave even the most organized student feeling a bit frazzled. However, in the midst of this whirlwind, I’ve stumbled upon a collection of practices that have added a touch of harmony and a dash of confidence to my daily college routine.

In a world where the myth of having everything figured out prevails, it’s crucial to acknowledge that perfection is an illusion. The quest for feeling put together isn’t about achieving flawless execution. Rather, it is about weaving together habits and strategies that create a semblance of order and confidence in the midst of academic and personal chaos. So, while we may not have all the answers, the following tips are a guide—a roadmap to infusing a sense of coherence into your college experience. Let’s dive into the art of feeling more put together in the unpredictable adventure that is college life.

  • Utilize a Planner or To-Do List: Overwhelm is common among college students juggling various commitments. The shift from mental chaos to organized clarity happened for me when I started using a planner. Scheduling tasks by time and due date, made my busy schedule feel more manageable. In the pages of my planner, I discovered not only a roadmap for my academic journey, but also a valuable tool. A tool that transformed the overwhelming into the achievable, fostering a sense of control and accomplishment in the dynamic landscape of college life.
  • Embrace Novelty Daily: Break away from your daily routine by introducing something new into your schedule every day, whether it’s exploring a new coffee shop, taking an alternate route to class, or setting small challenges for yourself. These deviations from the norm infuse a refreshing uniqueness into each day, cultivating a spirit of spontaneity that fuels personal growth and enriches the fabric of your college experience.
  • Prioritize Quality Sleep: The importance of sufficient sleep cannot be overstated. I, for one, need a solid eight hours to function optimally. Recognize your own needs; while some may thrive on less, college students generally benefit from seven to nine hours of sleep on average.
  • Make Your Bed Daily: A simple act with profound effects. Living in a dorm room with limited space, an unmade bed can disrupt the aesthetic harmony of your living space. Taking a moment each morning to make your bed creates an immediate sense of order.
  • Invest in Quality Denim: A wardrobe staple, a well-fitted pair of quality jeans can transform your style. Rather than opting for budget-friendly, lower-quality options, consider investing in a pair or two that not only look good but will withstand the test of time.
  • Accessorize for Confidence: Accessorizing for confidence is more than just adding embellishments to your outfit; it’s a transformative practice that extends beyond the surface, influencing how you carry yourself throughout the day. Elevating your daily attire with carefully chosen accessories becomes a powerful ritual, a form of self-expression that goes beyond mere aesthetics. When you select a favorite necklace, don gold earring hoops, or fasten a cherished watch, it’s like adorning yourself with fragments of your personality. These accessories become not just adornments but symbols of your unique style, each piece telling a story about your taste and preferences. The simple act of putting on these accessories can be a personal affirmation, a way of saying, “I am ready to face the day with confidence.”
  • Cultivate a Business Casual Ensemble: As you advance through college, the need for a professional wardrobe becomes apparent. Junior year often marks the start of internship searches and attending career events. Be prepared by having a go-to business casual outfit on standby. Keep an eye out for discount codes offered by career services for various brands during career fair seasons.

As we embark on this journey toward feeling more put together in the tapestry of college life, it’s crucial to embrace the notion that imperfection is not only acceptable but also inherently human. The pursuit of balance and confidence is not about attaining an unattainable ideal but rather about embracing the unpredictability of the college experience.

In the realm of academia, where each semester presents new challenges and opportunities, and personal growth is often intertwined with academic development, the path to feeling put together is uniquely yours. These tips serve not as rigid rules but as flexible tools to help you navigate the twists and turns of your college adventure.

So, whether you find solace in the crispness of a well-made bed, the reliability of a planner, or the transformative power of quality denim, remember that feeling put together is an ongoing process. It’s about adapting, learning, and discovering what works best for you. As you continue to evolve through the seasons of your college life, may you find a sense of order, confidence, and joy in the beautiful chaos that is uniquely yours. After all, the masterpiece you’re creating is not meant to be perfect, but authentically and beautifully yours!

Sarah Tubbs

Rutgers '25

Sarah is a junior at Rutgers University who is majoring in Human Resources and double minoring in psychology and diversity in the workplace. She loves reading (booktok stan), keeping a journal, listening to new music, and learning new things.