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Here Are The Cast’s Pronouns On ‘The Ultimatum: Queer Love’

Katriel Orlean

There has been a lot of hype around the new and addicting reality tv show The Ultimatum: Queer Love and for good reason. Just in time for Pride Month, this series was released on May 24, giving lots of recognition and love to the LGBTQ+ community. Originally this series featured straight couples, but Netflix has recently come out with this spin-off revolving around the five queer couples. The show films couples that are in the middle of a notorious ultimatum: one person in the couple is ready to settle down and the other one is not. Couples then split up and date another person for three weeks to see if their original partner is someone they truly want to be with forever — the pressure is on. Ultimately, they then return to their OG partner and see whether they want to marry each other, become single, or leave with their new lover — sounds juicy, right? This series is all things love, drama, and more drama. And, honestly, I’m here for it.

It’s important to know and address each cast member by their desired pronouns, so, let’s dive in and get to know the cast and their pronouns, we have a lot of studying to do!

Tiff

Tiff’s pronouns are they/them. They are 32 and their original partner is Mildred. 

Mildred

Mildred’s pronouns are she/her. She is 33 and her original partner is Tiff, who really really loved their dog. 

Raelyn

Raelyn’s pronouns are she/her. She is 27 and her original partner is Lexi, a TikTok star. 

Lexi

TikTok viral Lexi’s pronouns are she/her as well. She is 25 and her original partner is Raelyn!

Vanessa

Vanessa’s pronouns are she/her (and she’s basically the villain of the season). She is 30 and her original partner is Xander. 

Xander

Xander’s pronouns are she/they. She is 30 and their original partner is Vanessa. Xander seems to love the beach and traveling.

Mal

Mal’s pronouns are she/they. She is 36 and their original partner is Yoly. Mal is super into all things fashion, so definitely check out their Insta to see their amazing ‘fits. 

Yoly

Yoly’s pronouns are she/her. She is 34 and her original partner is Mal.

Sam
Sam from \'The Ultimatum: Queer Love\'
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Sam’s pronouns are she/her. She is 31 and her original partner is Aussie. 

Aussie
Aussie from \'The Ultimatum: Queer Love\'
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Aussie’s pronouns are anything, they don’t resonate with just one. They are 42 and their original partner is Sam. Neither one in this couple has social media, they are very much off the grid!

Katriel Orlean is an intern for the National Writing Program at Her Campus as well as the Instagram and Facebook editor at her Her Campus's Ohio State University chapter. She creates graphics for her chapter's Instagram and Facebook, posts new articles on both social medias, and helps to recruit members through Instagram. During her time as a writer for the NWP, she writes evergreen articles as well as articles that are news based. She writes about five to six articles per month for this program. Beyond Her Campus, Katriel is an intern for Spoon University where she writes 8-10 articles per month. These articles are sometimes evergreen but mostly they are based on timely news in the food world. She is currently a senior at The Ohio State University, majoring in Communications Analysis & Engagement. In her free time, Katriel loves to travel, workout, play tennis and pickle ball, and hang out with family and friends. She is a buckeye through and through and loves to exude all of her school spirit at the Ohio State football games. She loves to write, especially for HC!