If you’re looking for a way to make your night out a lil’ more interesting, have you considered playing “Would You Rather”? I think most of us can agree that there’s no better way to end the long week than dinner and drinks with your besties — and these raunchy “Would You Rather” questions are sure to keep things interesting.
Let’s be honest: Sometimes, catching up can be redundant. It can get boring asking the same questions over and over again: How’s work going? Did that Hinge date go well? What are your plans for this weekend? Yes, catching up about life is nice, but what’s the fun in that? So instead of sticking to your usual conversation starters, try spicing up your night out with a couple rounds of “Would You Rather.”
In case you need a refresher on how to play this game, “Would You Rather” is as simple as it sounds: you ask your friends “would you rather…” followed by two scenarios they have to choose from. Then your friends have to choose between the two. And, in my opinion, the raunchier the questions, the better (and more interesting) the game.
However, before asking these questions, it’s important to make sure your friends are comfortable with the questions being asked. Not everyone is comfortable having wildly freaky convos with their friends. Even if you aren’t doing anything explicitly sexual, consent and checking boundaries is still really important and necessary!
But if your friends (or even your partner) are down, then I have a list of 40 raunchy “Would You Rather” questions to ask. Oh, to be a fly on the wall…
40 Raunchy “Would You Rather” Questions to Ask Your Besties:
- Would you rather be the one who always initiates the kiss or the one who always gets pulled in first?
- Would you rather have insane chemistry with someone emotionally unavailable or average chemistry with someone who’s obsessed with you?
- Would you rather accidentally send a flirty text to your boss or your ex?
- Would you rather only be able to make out in public or only in completely private places forever?
- Would you rather have someone read your mind during a date or see your search history?
- Would you rather be caught flirting with someone you shouldn’t or catch your partner flirting with someone else?
- Would you rather have a partner who is very possessive or very emotionally distant?
- Would you rather your type always be slightly toxic or slightly boring?
- Would you rather accidentally like an ex’s post from 2017 or accidentally send a risky selfie to the wrong group chat?
- Would you rather be the hottest person in the room but have zero game, or average looking but dangerously good at flirting?
- Would you rather always know when someone is attracted to you or never know, but everyone is always attracted to you?
- Would you rather your friends know your exact type or your exact body count?
- Would you rather have your thoughts broadcast for one hour or your phone unlocked for one hour?
- Would you rather someone leave bite marks you have to hide the next day or a hickey you can’t cover, no matter how hard you try?
- Would you rather have a partner who’s super gentle and slow until you’re begging them to stop teasing or someone who’s intense from the second they touch you?
- Would you rather be kissed so well you forget what you were saying mid-sentence or be touched so gently it drives you insane because it’s not enough?
- Would you rather accidentally moan a little during a completely normal moment like a hug, or have someone notice you getting flustered and call you out immediately?
- Would you rather have someone trace your hand under the table all night while acting normal in public or openly flirt with you in a room full of people and not care who notices?
- Would you rather be the one who loses control first every time or the one who always knows exactly what they’re doing to the other person?
- Would you rather be walked in on while getting down and dirty, or have to walk in on your friend?
- Would you rather your ex reappear at every important life event, or your current crush always shows up when you look your worst?
- Would you rather have a voice note of your worst flirty attempt leaked, or your search history read out loud at brunch?
- Would you rather someone you like always sit too close to you or never sit close but always text you late at night?
- Would you rather have chemistry so strong it’s distracting in public settings, or emotional connection so deep it scares you a little?
- Would you rather someone always lightly touch your arm when talking to you or always hold eye contact just a second too long?
- Would you rather your biggest “what if” text you at 2:47 a.m. or run into them when you look your absolute worst?
- Would you rather your group chat see your most delusional “they like me back” evidence or your actual unfiltered reactions when they text you?
- Would you rather have tension so strong it ruins normal conversation forever or chemistry so mild you’re constantly wondering if you imagined it?
- Would you rather be unforgettable to someone emotionally unavailable or forgettable to someone who would’ve treated you right?
- Would you rather have someone kiss you like they’ve been thinking about it all day or like they’re trying to make you forget your name?
- Would you rather be the one who always gets pulled in first or the one who always pulls someone else in first?
- Would you rather someone whisper exactly what they want to do to you in your ear or text it to you while sitting right next to you?
- Would you rather be kissed in a crowded room and no one notices or be caught mid-kiss by everyone?
- Would you rather someone hold your waist a little too long every time they pass you or brush your hand on purpose every chance they get?
- Would you rather be pinned against a wall for a kiss that completely ruins your thoughts or be the one doing it and watching their reaction?
- Would you rather someone leave marks you have to hide the next day or leave you so flustered you can’t make eye contact?
- Would you rather a kiss that starts slow and turns intense or one that starts intense and never really slows down?
- Would you rather have a “we shouldn’t be doing this” connection that’s irresistible or a safe one that never fully ignites?
- Would you rather get a late-night “come over” text and regret it later or never get it at all and always wonder?
- Would you rather every kiss feel like it means something too much or nothing at all but still feel good?
These questions might lead to a night of giggling over cocktails with your best friends and interesting conversations! Have fun playing, and choose wisely!