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Gen Z knows that sex toys are our allies in the bedroom, not our enemies — they’re tools to enhance an already fabulous experience. And we live in an age where our options feel endless. You can browse 400 vibrators online and have your favorite hot-pink, sparkly, heart-shaped vibe discreetly sent to your door. But what they don’t tell you is that not every sex toy works with every sex position. Some require space. Some require access. And some require hyper-specific angles.
Bringing toys into the bedroom can mean even more satisfaction for both parties: According to Her Campus’s 2025 Sex Survey, 48% of Gen Zers have enjoyed using sex toys during partnered sex. So, if you’re down to try it, it’s time to start prioritizing the best positions for all your favorite toys.
Of course, when you introduce your favorite toys to your favorite sexual partner, it’s a good idea to plan out a few positions that work with the toys instead of against them. Thinking ahead about positions can make the difference between fumbling around and seamless pleasure. So, here’s a list of three positions to use with your sex toys, and which toys work best with each position.
- Doggy
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Think I was going to suggest an upside-down spread eagle? Nope. Doggy is a classic position that provides a perfect angle for toys. While the receiver lies bent over forward, propped up on their knees, their partner can penetrate from the back with a penis or dildo while reaching up front with a toy. Depending on everyone’s body proportions, reaching a hand up front might be a stretch, so I suggest using a wand vibrator like the Nirvana 2 by Bellesa ($99), with an added curve to make access easier. If your arms reach all the way, try the Yumi Finger Rechargeable Vibe from Wet For Her ($48): it is designed to sit comfortably between your fingers and along the vulva.
- Standing Missionary
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In standing missionary, the receiver lies with their back on the bed and their bum placed at the edge. Their partner stands and penetrates from off the bed. The receiver can choose to place their legs on their partner’s shoulders, hang off the bed, or do one of each. This angle provides the perfect level of control needed for a vibrating c-ring.
When using a vibrating c-ring, the giver will want to keep the vibration hitting the clitoris for vaginal penetration or the perineum for anal penetration. Standing can help the giver control when and where their partner will feel the vibration. If you’re looking for a vibrating c-ring, I think you can’t go wrong with Bellesa’s Halo 2 ($69) ring.
- The Lap Dance
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The lap dance is a variation of cowgirl, where instead of lying down, the giver sits straight up. This position works best when the giver has something to rest their back against, such as a headrest, wall, or chairback. The receiver then straddles the giver and rides to their heart’s content, with increased control over pacing and thrust.
Though this position blocks off front access to the genitals, it leaves the receiver’s backside wide open. Adding a buttplug to this position can add fullness and sensation. If you’re looking for a butt plug recommendation, the PlusOne 3-piece plug training set ($16) is perfect for anal play beginners and experts.