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20 Flirty Late-Night Texts That Are *Way* Better Than “U Up?”

Imagine this: you’re bored in bed, and you can’t stop thinking about that special person. You want to text them, but you don’t know what to say. Let’s forget about those generic “goodnight” messages that can lead to a dead end, or a single liked message. I’m talking about texts with spark, with a little mischievous smile that hints at a little something more. I’m going for the art of the after-dark digital dance, where words become winks and emojis are the playful nudges into the side. Enter, these flirty texts to send them at night.

Whether you’re looking to subtly test the waters with someone new, reignite the flame with your beloved, or simply inject a little playful energy into a comfortable connection, the right nighttime text can be pure magic. It’s about capturing the end-of-day vulnerability, that moment where guards are down, and the mind wanders to thoughts of connection and maybe, just maybe, a little bit more. 

So, let’s dim the lights, grab your phone, and prepare for a list of texts that are guaranteed to get their attention and leave them dreaming of you. I’m not just talking about sending a text, but crafting a vibe, setting a mood, and leaving them with a smile that lingers long after they’ve drifted off to sleep.

20 Flirty Texts to send them at night:

  1. “Just think about you before I drift off…and it’s making it hard to sleep.”
  2. “Hope you’re having sweet dreams…maybe I’ll be in them?”
  3. “Missing your touch and kisses tonight.”
  4. “Can’t stop imagining what it would be like if you were here right now.”
  5. “My bed feels way too empty without you”.
  6. “Thinking about all the fun we could be having right now…”
  7. “You have no idea the effect you have on me. Especially at night.”
  8. “Sleep tight… and don’t let the thoughts of me bite.”
  9. “You’re always the last thing on my mind before I fall asleep.”
  10.  “I can’t wait until I can wake up next to you.”
  11.  “Consider this is my official ‘thinking of you and wishing you were here” text.’”
  12.  “This cozy blanket would be perfect if you were under it with me.”
  13.  “Something about tonight is making me crave your attention.”
  14.  “Let’s just say my imagination is running wild tonight.”
  15.  “Is it too late to ask you to come over and tuck me in?”
  16.  “Sending you a virtual goodnight kiss. Catch it.”
  17.  “Just wanted to be the last person you think of tonight. Sweet dreams!”
  18.  “Can’t stop thinking about our [last interaction/date]. Goodnight.”
  19.  “You have no idea how much I wish I were cuddling with you right now.”
  20.  “Wishing you were here to keep me company… in more ways than one.”
  21.  “Just wanted to say goodnight and let you know you’re driving me crazy (in a good way).”

You’ve now got a whole arsenal of flirtatious texts ready to deploy under the moonlight. Remember, the key ingredient isn’t just the words themselves, but the playful confidence you send along with them. So go ahead, send that text, and who knows what delightful replies await you. Sweet dreams and even sweeter conversations.

My name is Aricka and I am a recent graduate from the University of Michigan. I enjoy writing articles about sex and relationships, mental health and books.

On my free time, I enjoy playing video games, writing short stories and spending time with my family and pets. I also have hobbies like crochet, reading books and painting.