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These 10 Thanksgiving Sex Positions Will Have You Feeling Thankful AF

Thanksgiving is around the corner, which means it’s time for good times, good food… and good sex. And if you’re down to get dirty in the bedroom, these Thanksgiving sex positions are totally something to be grateful for.

Now. I know you may be thinking that sex has nothing to do with Thanksgiving, but hear me out: Thanksgiving is the perfect time of year to show your special someone just how much you love and appreciate them. And yes, while sweet gestures and telling your partner how grateful you are for them work perfectly fine, you can also show them how much you appreciate them in some other (spicier) ways. ‘Tis the season of giving anyway, right? 

If you’re looking for a good way to show your partner your appreciation this season, consider giving them a little extra love in the bedroom! I know it’s easy to fall into routine and end up in the same three positions (been there, done that), but if you’re looking to spice things up and try new positions, you’re in the right place.

So whether you’re spending the holidays with a partner and are planning to skip dessert at the family function because one of you might be “tired,” or are making plans to see your hometown hookup (cue “‘Tis the Damn Season” by Taylor Swift), here are 10 sex positions to try this Thanksgiving. I promise you that these positions will leave both of you feeling thankful, IYKWIM.

Lotus

For this position, the giving partner sits with their legs crossed. Then, the receiving partner sits in their lap as the giver penetrates them from below. The great part about this position is that it’s sweet and intimate, perfect for showing your partner how much you appreciate them.

Sideways Spooning

This one is perfect if the two of you want to be cozy and warm. To sideways spoon, both partners lie on their sides. While spooning, whoever is the big spoon (the giving partner) will enter the little spoon (the receiving partner) from behind. Whoever is the big spoon can get handsy with the little spoon, and even stimulate their sensitive areas.

Bear Hug

The bear hug is similar to sideways spooning, but just a little extra. For this position, both partners face each other and wrap their arms around each other. The receiving partner then wraps their legs around the giving partner as they penetrate from below.

69

I don’t think any position screams mutual appreciation and pleasure like 69. For this position, one partner straddles their partner’s face while the other lies down under them, with their face at their partner’s genitals. From there, both partners orally pleasure each other at the same time — a win-win.

Face Sitting

This position ensures that Thanksgiving dinner won’t be the only thing you’ll be feasting on. For this position, the giving partner lies down while the receiving partner straddles and sits on their partner’s face. The receiving partner will ride away while the giving partner enjoys round two of dessert

Anvil

This position ensures that Thanksgiving dinner won’t be the only thing you’ll be feasting on. For this position, the giving partner lies down while the receiving partner straddles and sits on their partner’s face. The receiving partner will ride away while the giving partner enjoys round two of dessert

Prone Bone

In this position, the receiving partner lies on their stomach with their legs spread. The giving partner then positions themselves on top of the receiving partner and penetrates from behind. Comfortable, low-effort, and high reward.

Elevated Cowgirl

This position gives a beloved classic a sexy twist. To start, the giving partner lies on their back while the receiving partner gets on top of them and rides them. Instead of leaving their legs out straight, the giving partner lies down with their knees up and hips elevated so they can help whoever is on top.

Kneeling Doggy

Kneeling doggy is perfect if you like the feeling of the typical doggy style, but want to switch things up a bit. For this position, the receiving partner kneels in front of the giving partner, and the giving partner enters them from behind, grabbing the receiving partner’s hips and holding them upright.

Flamingo

And finally, if you want something that’s both romantic and a bit complicated (like you and your holiday fling), try the flamingo position! Here, the receiving partner leans against the wall as their giving partner stands in front of them. The receiving partner will then wrap a leg around the giving partner as they penetrate, holding the receiving partner for stability. Hot.

Be sure to enjoy the holidays and be grateful for all the good things in your life — like good sex!

Grace Tran is a recent University of Houston graduate, aspiring writer, and passionate storyteller. She believes storytelling has the power to foster connection, challenge stigma, and help people feel seen. Gracie is passionate about mental health advocacy and encourages open, honest conversations about emotional well-being, identity, and the experiences that shape who we are.

Grace aspires to be a queer Asian Carrie Bradshaw. She writes for the wellness vertical and explores relationships, sex, mental health, identity, and the beautifully messy reality of navigating your twenties. She enjoys blending personal reflection with cultural commentary, whether she's unpacking dating trends, discussing self-growth, or examining the nuances of queer life. Her goal is to write articles that resonate with readers while offering representation, comfort, and a fresh perspective.

Grace aspires to build a career as a magazine and digital media writer, creating thoughtful, engaging stories that inform, entertain, and inspire meaningful conversations. She hopes to amplify underrepresented voices, especially within queer and Asian communities, while continuing to write stories that leave readers feeling understood, empowered, and a little less alone.

When she’s not writing, Grace is trying to navigate life as a twenty-something, collecting new experiences, and finding beauty in life's beautifully messy moments.