With Christmas also comes the headache of shopping for gifts. Your partner may have given you a list of things that they want or is opting for a surprise to test out your knowledge. Sure, you can buy them a pair of new shoes or their favorite sports team jersey, but why not consider cranking up the heat a little bit by purchasing something sexy? Enter these sex-positive gifts for your partner.
If you and your partner are at a stage in the relationship where sex is used (and seen) as a healthy element, feel free to explore your freakiness by purchasing them a gift that celebrates everything about sex positivity and sexual wellness. Even if sex is relatively new for you and your boo, it should be approached in a way that is not stigmatized and shunned. After all, sex is a natural activity! However, like all things that are sexual in nature, be sure that your partner is enthusiastic and consenting to gifts that might be a bit NSFW.
So, if you’re feeling the urge to give your partner something that will bring new excitement to the bedroom, here are seven sex-positive gifts that will turn them on guaranteed (literally). From toys to games, this list has it all.
VUSH Intimate Gel ($7)
Intimate gels are the best investment for dirty business… and rightfully so! This intimate gel from VUSH is a water-based lubricant that is designed to ensure smoothness during sexual activity. It’s safe for use on bodies and toys, and it’s currently on sale.
Lovehoney Oh! The Big Oh! Board Game ($26)
Feeling frisky and want to put a spicy spin on Monopoly? This board game by Lovehoney is perfect for living out your wild fantasies with your partner, with up to three levels of the game diving deep into the different aspects of sex. If you’re open to the challenge of asking some dirty questions, or doing some sensual acts, then this board game won’t disappoint!
Tabs Libido-Enhancing Sex Chocolate Candy ($29)
Nothing screams Christmas than indulging in some tasty, sweet treats! The Sex Chocolate by Tabs is a scrumptious chocolate bar that hits all of the notes on arousal and satisfaction. The bar comes in a multitude of flavors, such as dark chocolate and pink cherry rose chocolate.
Playground Late Checkout Couples Intimacy Set ($12)
If you and your partner have an active sex life, consider buying them an intimacy set that comes with all of the goodies needed to get down and dirty — on a safe sex basis, of course.
The Billionaire Vibrator ($64)
Sex toys can be an adventurous tool to use on either yourself or your partner. If the topic of sex toys ever comes up in conversations with your partner, the Billionaire Vibrator by Smile Makers Collection is ideally perfect for beginners. Both of you will be in for a massive surprise!
Eye of Love Matchmaker Red Diamond Pheromone Massage Candle ($34)
Picture this: it’s Christmas night, and you’re planning the sexiest night for you and your bae. One of the things that will set the mood is having a candle that scents the room in a seductive way. This candle by Eye of Love features notes of citrus, jasmine, and vanilla — perfect for getting into the swing of things!
Weekend in Bed Tantric Massage Activity Kit ($35)
A well-deserved massage after a chaotic finals season may be the answer to resolve stress. This massage activity kit by PinkCherry is perfect for you and your partner to test out on one another, and who knows, you may get a happy ending (IYKYK).
Without a doubt, these gifts will get the temperature rising between you and your boo in no time!