In the words of Chappell Roan herself, “Take it like a taker, ’cause baby, I’m a giver.” ICYMI, Dec. 2 is Giving Tuesday — a day that celebrates and encourages generosity. So, after you drop off items at your local food bank or donate to a cause important to you, consider giving a (spicy) gift to your partner or FWB this Giving Tuesday. (I’m talking about oral sex, if you’re not catching my drift.)
Giving oral sex isn’t just a win for the receiving partner — IMO, it’s actually a pretty empowering position to be in. When you’re the giving partner, not only are you in complete control of pleasuring your partner, but you’re also boldly expressing your sexuality in a new way. Giving oral sex also allows you to try new techniques and positions, and build a more sexually intimate relationship aside from just penetrative sex. (It’s also really good foreplay, FWIW.)
So, if you’re in the spirit of giving (and you’re actually down to go down), look at this as your sign to get a little dirty this holiday. Here are four Giving Tuesday oral sex positions you can try with your partner, FWB, or any person in your life deserving of a ‘lil action below the belt.
- The Mechanic
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Who said oral sex positions were boring? In this position, the giving partner lies on their back (on a bed or couch), pleasuring from underneath as the receiving partner squats on top of their face. Alternatively, if they have a penis or a strap-on, the receiving partner can lower onto their knees and lean forward slightly for a more inclusive (and comfortable) modification.
- “Behind!”
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This one is a personal favorite. The receiving partner kneels, facing the back of the couch or the headboard (holding onto it for support) as the giving partner kneels behind them, pleasuring them from the back. This position is also perfect for introducing some spanking or anal play — just make sure you communicate about it beforehand.
- Cannonball
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Car sex enthusiasts, this one is for you (and your backseat). To do this position, the receiving partner lies back with their knees bent up toward their chest, spreading their legs slightly. Then, the giving partner lies on their stomach to give oral sex comfortably. (For partners with a penis, the giving partner can prop themselves up on their forearms for a better angle.) It’s simple, but effective. Trust.
- Blinded by the pleasure
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Got a scarf? Sleep mask? Or a just good old-fashioned blindfold? Then, let’s put it to work. With the receiving partner blindfolded and seated upright in a chair, the giving partner gets down on their knees to pleasure them like it’s a 50 Shades movie. The receiving partner can either keep their feet planted on the floor or hook their legs around the giving partner’s shoulders for a little extra spice.