One of the worst things about getting to know someone is that awkward, “what’s your favorite color?” stage. You know, the boring-question phase where it’s obvious you’re both really into each other, but neither of you knows how to initiate those more playful, interesting conversations. Everyone’s been there, truly. But what if I told you it doesn’t have to be that way? Enter: Truth or Dare. But, you know, the unhinged version. And dare-only.
I know, I know. Truth or dare, honestly, reminds me of eighth-grade basement parties and deeply questionable spin-the-bottle choices. It can be hard to take it seriously. But the good news is that, with these unhinged dares, you don’t really have to. Asking your crush to do these dares isn’t just about getting to know them better — it’s about breaking the ice between you two and setting the stage for a, hopefully, very passionate relationship… or at least a very passionate first date (IYKYK).
So, if you’re tired of asking boring questions over and over again, I suggest shooting a few of these 40 dirty and unhinged dares to your crush and seeing what happens. Oh, and heads up: they’re pretty spicy, too. (What? Can’t a girl have some fun?)
40 Dirty & Unhinged Dares For Your Crush
- Send an audio message of you moaning my name.
- Send a screenshot of your search history.
- Tell me your biggest turn-on.
- Send me one thing from your “My Eyes Only”.
- Ask me a question you’ve been dying to know.
- Send a picture as if you were on top.
- Tell me, in detail, the craziest place you’ve had sex.
- Tell me what you’d do to me if we were together, right now.
- Pick out a sex toy for us to try.
- Describe a scene — you and me, three sentences. No limits.
- Tell me something you want that you’ve never asked for before.
- Send a shirtless photo… and be creative.
- Tell me one thing you want me to do to you. Be specific.
- Change my contact name in your phone to “babe” until tomorrow.
- Describe to me your type.
- Tell me what you’re wearing right now… and I mean everything.
- Describe your first kiss.
- Describe the best orgasm you’ve had. Don’t leave a thing out.
- Try to turn me on, and don’t hold back.
- Show me a sexy photo you have saved on your phone.
- Perform a striptease for me.
- Let me take control of your dating apps for the rest of the night.
- Describe me in one word.
- Tell me your freakiest pick-up line.
- Text me like we just matched on Tinder. Use as many clichés as you can.
- Do your best impression of me.
- Take your shirt off and send proof.
- Tell me a secret of yours nobody knows. Swear I won’t tell.
- Search up the dirtiest thing you can think of. Send it to me.
- Only answer yes to anything I ask for an hour.
- Have you ever gone skinny dipping?
- Describe to me your biggest ick.
- Take a body shot off of me.
- Tell your crush you like them. Don’t worry, my notifs are on.
- Pretend you’re drunk texting me a secret.
- Tell me your wildest fantasy.
- Tell me the last person you stalked on Instagram.
- Send your last saved thirst trap.
- Pretend you’re drunk texting me something you want to say to me.
- Tell me the biggest thing you’re afraid of. Why?
- Describe, in detail, your last dream to me.
- Come over… now.
At the end of the day, the two of you will get to know each other no matter what. These dares are only meant to add some spice to the getting-to-know-each-other stage. And if they match your freak… you know you got a keeper.