Going off to a new school can be extremely intimidating, especially if you don’t know anyone. The York University campus can be daunting because of its size, but have no fear: I’m here to help you navigate your way through the jungle. University is the place where you will create many meaningful friendships and there are tons of ways to do so here at York U.
Join Clubs!
York U has more than 300 student clubs and there is a good chance there is a club that will suit you. Clubs are a good way to form friendships because you may be able to find someone with the same interests as you. There are many clubs tabling all through Vari Hall and into the Ross Building. If you can’t find a club booth that is right for you, you can always search for a club using YU Connect.
Talk to the Person Next to You in Class
I know it’s scary sometimes to just say “hello” to your neighbor. You may be thinking “do they think I’m weird?” or “was that too sudden of me?” but most of the time, your classmate is just as afraid. So, take the initiative and say “hello.” Chances are, they want to be friends with you as well.
Get Out of Your Comfort Zone
Getting out of your comfort zone will not only help you make friends much easier, but will also expose you to many more opportunities. I know this is not as easy as it sounds, but you can take little steps at a time to get there, such as answering questions in class (even if you get it wrong, at least you took the risk, right?), or even asking questions in class. People will see that you’re confident and will realize that you’re good friend-material.
Participate in Events Around Campus
York always has events happening on campus. If you’re on campus around lunch hour, be sure to stop by the Student Centre because there are always events during that time. It also doesn’t hurt to check out the posters around campus to see what’s going on during certain days.
If You Live in Residence…
Those who live in residence have a bit of an advantage at making friends because they are on campus most of the time. If you live in residence, you can make your first friend just by introducing yourself to your roommate (if you have one), and get to know each. If you don’t have a roommate, you can always attend Residence Life events to meet other people in your Residence.
Making Friends Online
This may seem a little weird, but there are York Facebook groups according to your program and/or college. If you’re the type of person who prefers to talk to people via messaging first before meeting up, this is a good chance to strike up a friendship and eventually meet up as well.
Even if you aren’t successful in making friends during the first week of university, don’t worry because you will still have plenty of time to make friends. An important thing to remember: never change who you are. Even if you haven’t made friends yet, don’t change yourself just to fit in. You will find your friends soon enough, and you will realize that you didn’t have to change who you are.