It approached us too quickly. Hanging over us like a dark cloud, it’s been looming in the distance and taunting us. Falling asleep every night meant it was one day closer. It’s the day some have been dreading since the beginning of this month. This particular day hits some like a slap in the face, and it’s the day many wish would just not exist at all. Commonly known as “Singles Awareness Day,” it has arrived: the lovey-dovey, mushy-gushy Valentine’s Day.
Although that intro may seem a bit dramatic, it’s completely fitting for those of us who see this day as a sour reminder of our single status. Whether it’s by the tacky decorations in the stores or by the happy couples that seem to surround us on campus. The fact that there is a whole day dedicated to love is rather sickening, especially to a boyfriend-less girl like myself. But this year, I decided to take a step back from the hype of it all and reanalyze Valentine’s Day.
Just because we don’t have boyfriends doesn’t mean we can’t enjoy and celebrate this day of love. There are so many other people in our lives to appreciate and love: parents, siblings, friends, sorority sisters, pets, etc. There are tons of ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day other than just going out to dinner with a significant other. Besides, that always sounded boring anyway… Here are some activities you can do with friends to forget about the sappiness and corniness of this holiday:
1. Girls Night Out!
Nothing quite restores your confidence like getting all dolled up and going out. Get some of your closest single girlfriends together, and pick a fancy sushi restaurant downtown (like Dragonfly if you live in Gainesville). Going out with friends is always more laidback, and you don’t have to worry about impressing anyone.
2. Movie Time!
Have your friends over, get in your jammies, and pick out some of your favorite movies. If you feel like moping in self-pity about not having a boyfriend, then try romantic comedies, chock-full of hot actors to fantasize about (Zac Efron in “The Lucky One”… can’t beat it). But if you’re like me and you’d rather laugh your worries away, go for a real comedy like “Pitch Perfect.”
3. Get Pinterest-y!
Pinterest is perfect for holidays because it’s loaded with crafting and baking ideas. Spread the love by handing out homemade Valentine’s cards to random cuties around campus or sending them to your parents. It’ll make their day! If you’re the type of girl that would rather eat your feelings (been there, done that), then get in touch with your inner Betty Crocker and bake some adorable cake pops like these!
These are just a few ideas for how we boyfriend-less gals can spend our Valentine’s Day instead of sulking around. Keep in mind we won’t all remain single cat ladies for life, sobbing while watching “The Notebook” every Valentine’s Day. There truly is someone out there for everyone, and it’s only a matter of time before they come around. Be patient, and enjoy your singleness while it lasts! Happy Valentine’s Day, fellow collegiettes!
Photo Credits:
1. Girls at restaurant photo- www.zentified.com
2. Movies photo- www.collegehumor.com
3. Cake pop photo- www.bettycrocker.com