Going home for any holiday can be daunting for students who haven’t been home in a while. Many college students find their independence when they move away, and if it’s taken away, it can be frustrating. Even when our parents aren’t trying to take away our freedom, it can feel that way. We have had time to change away from them, and that’s fine! The process of traveling and the weight of finals also doesn’t help with this stress at all, so it’s important to take initiative to make this holiday season less stressful.
Finals leading up to the holidays
The week before going home for the holidays can be a bit stressful. Make sure to take some time for yourself, as your mental health at this time is essential. While your family wants to know about every little move in your holiday plan, you come first. Spread out your studying, pack early, and prioritize your peace during this time. This week is supposed to be a celebration of making it through a semester, not a struggle. This will also help you take time to destress before facing your family and the chaos that comes with large holidays.
Traveling Tips
Whether you are traveling far or just driving a few towns over, make sure to be prepared. This is your chance to take home anything that’s sitting in your apartment or dorm that you realized you didn’t need. If you are driving home, pack up all the unnecessary clutter and bring it back home. If you call people while you’re on the road, it makes the drive feel so much faster!
If you are flying, pack in advance and double-check all airline regulations. Ensure someone is available to drive you to the airport and pick you up upon arrival. Try not to overpack, as you may need to plan for anything that you may want to bring back to school with you.
What to expect Arriving back home
You have been living away from your parents for months now, experiencing new people, places, and things. You have had complete freedom concerning where you go and what you do, but now you have rules again. It’s easy to get frustrated when you aren’t used to having to eat dinner at a certain time or having to tell people where you’re going.
These rules and basic house courtesies that your parents have in place for you can be tough after being away for so long. However, there is a way to respect your family’s rules while still showing them your newfound independence. Attend family events and respect their schedule, but also make time for yourself to go out with friends, go to the gym, or get dinner by yourself. Coexisting with your family after being away is all about balance.
Enjoy your break
While this can be a stressful time for college students returning home, appreciate the free groceries, good food, and family time. They missed you as much as you missed them. While they may want to see you every second of every day that you’re at home, set your boundaries and find your balance. This is supposed to be a break for you, so enjoy it!