This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Texas chapter.
It’s that time of year again: when obnoxiously huge teddy bears, heart-shaped everything, pink and red hues and chocolates become a common staple at every grocery store you walk into. Have you been to the north campus HEB lately? And even though you’re probably a proud, fabulous, independent singleton, who don’t need no man or woman to complete you, one can’t help but feel a little lonely and stressed on Valentine’s Day. It’s filled with reminders of love and romance that you don’t currently have and can feel like a nightmare to get through when you’re walking through our coupled-up campus. Seriously, ain’t nobody got time for that. Simply put, it is “Singles Awareness Day.” But, don’t fret one more second. I’ve come up with the best ways to beat the Valentine’s Day blues and embrace your confident, single self.
Always remember to be proud of your single status. This may be difficult to commit to but honestly being single is a really good thing. There is absolutely NO reason to throw yourself a pity party about it, so instead embrace and appreciate it. There are so many perks to being a single lady or dude. You are young and carefree and able to flirt with any hottie that walks by. You don’t have to worry about checking in or getting your significant other’s approval when you dance on the bar tops at Aquarium–you just do it! You are your own person and are free to make decisions based on your aspirations, not your partner’s. Be proud of the fact that you don’t need anyone in your life to feel happy. This is a good thing. Enjoy the freedom!
Remember it’s not the end of the world. This one may be a little redundant, but I want to drill this point into your heads. Not having a Valentine on Valentine’s Day is not the end of the world! It’s not even close. While you may daydream in class of being swept off your feet by Prince Charming, this day is just another day on the calendar like any other. Don’t sweat it.
Realize that Valentine’s Day was created only for money. Mo money mo problems, right? We all know this day is a result of consumerism in America. Stores and companies all make major bank from all the roses, chocolates and cards people are pressured into buying for the special someone in their lives. So, feel better knowing you will most likely save money. In fact, use that extra cash and treat yourself to something nice.
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Be your own Valentine. If Valentine’s Day is supposed to be the day we let people know how much we love them, why not love yourself on this day? Go on, be a little narcissistic for once. Like I previously mentioned, go buy yourself something nice, i.e. pretty flowers, tickets to that concert you’ve
been dying to go to, a new outfit, or whatever makes your heart content. And if you’re a broke collegiette like myself, find a cheaper way to treat yourself. Read a good book, watch your favorite show on Netflix (Breaking Bad, anyone?), take a well-deserved bubble bath and remind yourself how much you love being you.
Round up your single ladies. Beyonce knows what’s up. Didn’t you see her single friends, Michelle Williams and Kelly Rowland on stage shaking what their mamas gave them together at Super Bowl XLVII? Even though she’s taken (maybe you know the guy), she’s always making time for the single ladies in her life and even made an anthem to prove it. This goes for the single gentlemen out there too. While your taken friends are out schmoozing with their boo-thangs this Valentine’s Day, round up your single friends for a fun night painting the town! Try hitting up the local bars to spice up the night. Everyone who’s out will be single as well. Not to mention that the night’s activities will probably help you forget all about Valentine’s Day. Who knows, you may even meet that special someone.
Spark a new flame. I can’t think of a better time to go after that certain someone that you’ve had your eyes on, than on Valentine’s Day. You’re single and ready to mingle right? Please girl, I know you are, so take this opportunity to get your flirt on and find your long awaited, and well-deserved love. The thought of a potential flame will brighten your mood right up. Trust me.
This year, make the dreaded holiday more exciting and let everyone know what they are missing in their lives in the process- YOU!