Name: Mark Bestoso
Age:Â 62 (I will be 63 in March).
Hometown: Born and raised in Newport, RI – the 10th of 15 children.Â
Courses Taught:Â Â Introduction to Management (MGMT 301), International Management (MGMT 461), Freshmen Seminar (PSU 007), Introduction to Marketing (MKTG 301) and Organizational Theory (MGMT 331).
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Why did you join the navy?
I joined the Navy because I was struggling in a number of ways. I had dropped out of the University of Rhode Island after being in a serious car accident in which a good friend died after only a month or so into school. Did a series of dead-end jobs for a year or two then enrolled at Stonehill University where I partied heavily and dropped out after my sophomore year. Was a bagger at a grocery store and worked at the front desk of a hotel (still partying of course) for a year or two. At this point I realized I had to get out of my hometown and away from childhood friends to break out of the rut I was in so I enlisted in the navy. Best move I ever made. I was deployed on three Mediterranean cruises on a nuclear powered cruiser with the rate of quartermaster (enlisted navigator).
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What was one of the best experiences you took from it?
I visited Portugal, Gibraltar, Spain, Italy, Greece, Israel, Egypt, Sicily, Norway, England, Scotland, Puerto Rico and probably others I cannot recall. But most of all the Navy forced me to be responsible. I received an honorable discharge after serving my four year enlistment.
Isle of Capri (1978 or so – 24 years old)
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How did it affect your relationship with your wife?Â
I met my future wife, Bonnie, three years into my Navy service. I did one more deployment after I met her and the absence actually made us closer. She wrote to me every day and I wrote whenever I had time.
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What made you want to become a teacher?
I did not intend to be a teacher. After I left the Navy I re-enrolled at URI and completed my undergraduate degree in psychology in less than two years with a very high GPA for a change (it is called maturity). I worked as a yacht broker for two years in Newport after completing my degree (married by that time and had my first child – Alexa) and then decided to get my MBA. I earned my MBA at Smeal in 1985 (second child born in 1984 – Matthew)and moved to Erie (my wife’s hometown) to work in an executive training program with Metropolitan Insurance. Hated that and stayed a year before becoming a human resource manager with Kaufman’s. Hated the time away from family (another son – Jonathan by that time) so left that position after a year and a half or so. At this time we bought a bridal shop so my wife could run that (needed a break from our now four children – Rebecca last one) and I wanted a break from the world of outside work so I became one of the first “Mr. Moms” for three years. Shop did well for a while but the 1990 recession really broke our backs so we closed the shop and I started looking for work. I had taken an interest test at Gannon at some point when I was trying to figure out what I wanted to do and teaching came up as the best fit for me. I sent my resume to Behrend and as luck would have it a faculty member who was slated to teach a summer MGMT 471 course that was to start in a few days became sick and could not teach the class. My resume happened to be in the right place at the right time and I got a call from the desperate director of the business school (Dr. John Magenau) asking if I could meet with him to discuss my teaching the class. We hit it off and I was hired as an adjunct to teach that summer class. I had never taught before and I kind of panicked in my first class ending it abruptly fifteen minutes into the class. Fortunately I got over my jitters and was fine for the rest of the semester. I was then asked to teach more classes as an adjunct for the upcoming year and became full time the following year.
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How long have you been working at Behrend?
I have been teaching here since 1990.Â
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Whats the best experience you had teaching?
I don’t know if I have had a “best experience” while teaching. For the most part it has been a wonderful 27 years. I especially like advising students who are struggling as I have experienced what they are going through. With students who are floundering I always ask “who is paying for your education” and invariably they mention loans. I have to remind them that at some point you have to repay those loans and if you leave without a degree you will never get a return on that investment. I also am not shy about suggesting they join the military if they don’t appear willing to buckle down and study.
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Why did you choose this year to retire?
I chose this year to retire because I got a VRO (a voluntary retirement offer). I will get a lump sum annual payment sometime in July with my last day as a PSU employee being June 30th. I had intended to leave at 66 in 2020 but I am now a recent grandfather with both of my grandsons living outside of Erie (one in Newport, RI and one in Philadelphia). My wife and I want to be able to visit them often and if our children want to leave them with us so they can travel, etc. I will be free to help out.
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Where do you see yourself doing after you retire?
As far as work is concerned, I will play that be ear. I can always be an Uber driver. I also intend to volunteer, hopefully, at the Neighbor Art House in downtown Erie to help inner city kids with their homework, etc.
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Thank you for showing us how Professors are people with stories too, not just people who lecture us for 50-75 minutes. HCXO
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