As February begins, the majority of people are thinking about Valentine’s Day. There are typically two types of people during this time: those who are thinking about what to get their significant other, and those who are thinking about what to do that day. Personally, I have shifted over from person one to person two. I created a couple of ideas of what to do on Valentine’s Day when you’re single, or even if you’re not able to see your significant other that day.
The first thing you can do is hangout with your friends. Whether they’re your single friends or your taken friends, seeing them can fill your day with happiness. Something that has been popular in recent years is Galentine’s Day, which is getting all your girls together and having your own little party. No matter what you choose to do with them, spending this time with your friends can help to get over the feelings of loneliness or sadness that one may feel during this day.
Spending a night in with movies and takeout is another great way to spend V-Day. As simple as this seems, having a night in alone, or with friends, can allow you to relax at home. Similar to the first idea, having your own little party, even if it’s just you, can provide relief to sadness and loneliness by doing something mindless.
The third thing you can do is cook a nice dinner or go out to your favorite restaurant. Cooking always helps me to relieve stress. On the other hand, going out to your favorite restaurant is such a treat. Personally, cooking something nice for myself fills me with love and gives me a sense of pride.
The fourth thing you can do is buy something nice for yourself. It can be as simple as chocolate, or it can be nicer, such as flowers or jewelry. You don’t need another person to make you feel loved – you can do it all on your own.
If all else fails, take the time to unplug and relax. There’s nothing better than not using your phone for a day and just allowing yourself to relax without the constant reminders of social media. You don’t have to think about others, and can focus on yourself.
Whatever you choose to do on Valentine’s Day, just remember that there is love all around you in many different forms. You don’t need a significant other to make you feel loved. Do what makes you feel happy and have fun.