Meeting your boyfriend’s parents can be one of the most nerve-racking parts of a relationship. His family’s approval alone can possibly make or break your relationship. For most college students, thanksgiving is the first time meeting their significant other’s relatives. It’s hard enough to impress his parents, but around thanksgiving you also have to worry about aunts, cousins, uncles, grandparents, and even friends back home. Don’t worry. With these five easy tips, the thanksgiving meet up will be as easy as pie.
1)Pick an outfit that’s cute and classy
You only get one first impression, so put your best foot forward with an appropriate ensemble. It’s time to keep your crop tops at home. Also try to wear something that’s comfortable, appropriate for the weather, and most importantly something that makes you feel confident. A cute outfit can not only be a great conversation starter, but it can also help you to be comfortable and to let loose. After all, when you look good, you feel good.
2)Brush up on what’s going on in the world
If you’re on the shyer side, you might be scared of running out of things to say. Sometimes small talk can be awkward, but it doesn’t have to be. Make sure you know what’s going on around you in politics, pop culture, sports, and more. Almost everyone watches the news, so talking about these topics can help create a common ground.
3)Compliments are key
Who doesn’t love hearing a nice compliment in a while? Compliments are a great way to break the ice. Don’t feel like you have to compliment everything or pretend you like something you don’t. There’s nothing wrong with having an opinion. However, whether it’s his aunt’s blazer or his uncle’s potato salad, there is always something you can comment on in order to win them over.
4)Remember your manners
This goes without being said, but be polite. Be sure to say please and thank you. Chew with your mouth closed and keep your elbows off the table. Showing off your home training is an easy way to impress his folks. After all, you catch more flies with honey than you ever could with vinegar.
5)Relax and just be yourself
Don’t be too nervous about meeting his family. When in doubt, just be yourself. You are intelligent, kind, likable, and amazing. At the end of the day he’s bringing you home for a reason.
Meeting his family doesn’t seem easy at first, but you have nothing to worry about. If you’re confident and true to yourself, they are bound to love you just as much as he does.