Ever heard the saying anything you can do I can do better? I believe this attitude is key when it comes to sex! For years the art of female masturbation has been practiced in private but looked down upon in public. Here’s a secret sweetie …
EVERYONE DOES IT!!!
It’s no big shocker, not everyone gets “play”. Sometimes the best partner is yourself. Most abstinent people say the reason they can withstand from sex is due to masturbation. One anonymous source I interviewed said, “If it wasn’t for my variations of dildos I would have lost it a long time ago!”. Although masturbation is a tool to “Hold” you over till actual sex, it does way more for you than just fill.
I believe masturbation is a self-esteem builder. Just think about this little analogy. You get a gift for Christmas and it’s a cool new gadget. Instead of unwrapping it and figuring out how to work it you give it to your neighbor to figure out. It’s your gift, so why is your neighbor unraveling it?
That’s my attitude toward the vagina. Our vagina belongs to us! We need to know all the spots and kinks and curves, yet we let men figure them out for us. If you know how to make yourself orgasm you really don’t need a man for anything!
That’s why women get so attached to guys when they have sex, the sensation is unknown. When you know how to please yourself, you have a clearer mind!
I’m serious ladies! Especially after a hard day at school, work, or just life! Lying down and pleasing yourself is a big stress reliever. It can almost be like a treat.
Don’t turn your nose up at masturbation. It actually builds self-esteem. You build a certain love and comfortability with your body that no one else can make you feel. How are you going to let someone else explore your vagina when you don’t even know it yourself?