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Self-Grooming and Good Etiquette Make All the Difference

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Delhi South chapter.

Self-grooming and good etiquette is something that everyone talks about continuosly and yet they tend to overlook it in their daily lives. Self-grooming refers to the practice of taking care of oneself, including one’s physical appearance, cleanliness, and overall mental and physical wellbeing makes for a basic rule of social behavior and interaction. When you walk into a room full of people, what makes you stand out is the way you carry yourself, the way you talk, how you treat other etc.

Grooming doesn’t necessarily mean wearing expensive or fancy clothes, or always spending thousands on hair and makeup. It merely means wearing what suits your body and makes you feel comfortable and you might not necessarily feel yourself wearing something which looks beautiful on your friends or colleagues or even a model. You shouldn’t feel pressure to wear anything that doesn’t feel like an expression of yourself. It includes taking care of your hair, skin, nails, teeth and how you smell.

Looking after yourself in this manner not only increases your confidence, but it also impacts how others look at you or think about you. If you meet somebody who is wearing a very expensive dress, however it is not their size, or their hair is extremely messy in a professional or formal environment, or if they smell like they haven’t taken a shower in days, it may have you walking away with a bad impression regardless of that price tag or designer label. The very basic things you can do is, taking regular showers, washing your hair regularly, brushing your teeth, trimming your nails, taking care of your skin, carrying a perfume with yourself, and maintaining a clean and neat appearance. It you are just a little scrupulous about how you present yourself, it makes a lot of difference.

However, good etiquette trumps even your physical presentation. It is the practice of displaying appropriate behavior in social interactions. This includes being deferential to everyone present in your surroundings, be it your boss, your junior or household help, demonstrating courtesy, and consideration towards others, being punctual, using proper language and demonstrating good manners. Good etiquette is essential because it helps to establish a mutual respect and consideration between individuals. When people feel respected and valued, they are more likely to form strong, lasting relationships. Good etiquette can also help to prevent misunderstandings and conflicts that can damage relationships. By showing modicum of good etiquette, we can really make ourselves stand out. Moreover, good etiquette can help individuals navigate various social situations with ease and confidence. For instance, using proper language and tone of voice can make communication effective and respectful, leading to better understanding and fewer conflicts. Displaying proper grooming can make individuals look and feel their best, which can boost their confidence and self-esteem.

Self-grooming and good etiquette are two essential practices that aid in building strong and positive relationships in personal and professional life. By taking care of oneself and practicing good etiquette, an individual can make a lasting impression on others and create a positive and supportive social environment. Thus, it is crucial to invest time in personal grooming and etiquette habits to create a positive impact on one’s social life.

Samridhi Dwivedi

Delhi South '24

Samridhi Dwivedi Atma Ram Sanatan Dharma College English Honors