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The Irresistible Allure of K-Dramas: Why We Keep Coming Back

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Mumukshaa Goswami Student Contributor, University of Delhi - North Campus
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Delhi North chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Found Families, Self-Discovery, and the Magic That Lingers

Have you ever wondered what it is about K-dramas that keeps us coming back? Is it the heart-touching love stories, the perfect storytelling, or the dream man or woman we wish existed? What is it that makes them so irresistible?

K-dramas have an undeniable magic, drawing us in with stories that feel both personal and universal. They captivate us with narratives of found families and self-discovery, offering solace, laughter, and reflection. There’s a reason we keep returning to them, why we willingly let these stories settle into the corners of our minds. At its core, these dramas resonate long after the credits roll, driven by the powerful themes of found family and self-discovery.

The Comfort of Found Families

Blood ties are one thing, but K-dramas remind us that the strongest families aren’t always the ones we’re born into; they’re the ones we build. Whether it’s through friendship, shared struggles, or quiet moments of understanding, these relationships become the heart of a series.

Family by Choice embodies this concept in its purest form. It’s a drama that doesn’t just preach about found families; it immerses us in one. The characters, all struggling with their pasts, find solace in each other. There’s something painfully beautiful about watching them create a home out of people instead of places. It’s raw, it’s real, and it’s exactly why this drama left such an impact on me. Because isn’t that what we all want? To be seen, to be chosen, to belong, even if we don’t fit the conventional mold of a ‘family’?

Then there’s King the Land, a drama that, at first glance, seems to focus on romance but is deeply rooted in the relationships we build in unexpected places. Sa-rang, surrounded by colleagues-turned-friends, finds support and warmth in a world that often feels too rigid. It’s not just about love; it’s about the people who make life softer, easier to bear.

Even True Beauty, which most remember for its love triangle and aesthetic appeal, has a quiet found family within it. Su-ho, Seo-jun, and Ju-kyung don’t just navigate romance; they offer each other a kind of unspoken support. In the moments where words fail, they exist as each other’s safe spaces. And that’s what truly matters.

The Journey of Self-Discovery

But the journey in K-Dramas isn’t just about the bonds we form with others; it’s also about the one we share with ourselves, the discovery of who we are and who we wish to become.

Beyond romance and friendships, K-dramas masterfully portray the journey of figuring out who we are. It’s never a straight path, and that’s exactly what makes it so compelling.

My Liberation Diary is one of those dramas that doesn’t just tell a story, it makes you sit with it. It doesn’t offer grand resolutions or neatly tied-up endings, but instead, it forces you to reflect. Every character’s journey toward self-liberation is painfully slow, almost frustrating, but isn’t that how real growth feels? Watching it felt like looking into a mirror, seeing parts of myself in their struggles, in their longing for something more.

Then there’s Navillera, a drama that reminds us that self-discovery isn’t limited to youth. An elderly man chasing his lifelong dream of ballet? It’s unconventional, but it’s proof that finding oneself has no expiration date. It left me wondering: how often do we silence our own desires because we think it’s too late?

Why These Stories Stay With Us

K-dramas don’t just entertain; they hold a mirror to our lives. They remind us that family isn’t always defined by blood, that we are allowed to change, to grow, to seek more. They don’t rush self-discovery, nor do they make it look easy. But they do reassure us that no matter how lost we feel, we are not alone.

So we keep coming back, not just for the romance, the humor, or the aesthetics, but for that sense of belonging. For the hope that, like the characters we love, we too will find our place in the world. And just like the characters in our favorite dramas, we, too, might find ourselves, and our chosen family along the way. After all, isn’t that what makes these stories so unforgettable?

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Mumukshaa Goswami

Delhi North '27

To make a sweet cold coffee, you start by adding milk and two crushed ice cubes for that perfect chill, just like the love I pour into art and poetry. Then, four small spoons of sugar, enough to savor my love for books and thrilling stories. Finally, two sachets of coffee, blending in my morbid curiosity and fascination with the unusual. And that’s how the perfect coffee, or me was made.