Despite just getting back from spring break, I know most people are already looking forward to summer and going home. We are excited to reunite with our friends, our childhood homes, and be our families. We cannot wait for vacations, concerts, and simply just enjoying the freedom of summer. However, going home also means letting go of our lives here at Cal Lutheran and being away from the friends and relationships we have made. Some of us are fortunate enough to be able to schedule meet-ups with our Cal Lutheran friends, but that is not everyone’s reality. For many, we will not see our friends until we return to campus in the fall. How do we just move away? How do we maintain friendships? How do we avoid losing contact? What if we are too busy to be on the phone all day?
Personally, I am becoming extremely grateful to live in the digital age. There are so many apps and websites that can help you stay connected. We all know to use FaceTime, Snapchat, Instagram, and text messaging, but I will be sharing two apps that are more unique. I have used these apps for a few weeks in preparation for summer since I will have loved ones in different states and countries. The apps promote status updates on emotions and events in life in an asynchronous format.
Obimy
This app helps people share their emotions in real-time and provide virtual comfort to those important to us. On the app, you are given access to a colorful square where you can update your emotions. It will send your friends notifications about your emotional status to which their square can respond with hugs and other forms of virtual affection. It is a bit cheesy, but it is helpful just to know when you should call and reach out. It makes both parties aware of each other’s feelings throughout the day. In addition, the app informs you of how many steps your friend has taken, which can become a little competition and be another thing to communicate about.
Locket
Locket is an app that functions similarly to Snapchat and allows you to send photos to friends and family. However, rather than the interaction ending immediately after sending the photo, it remains as a Widget on your home screen. I have chosen to leave my Locket widget on my main screen so that I can see the new photo as soon as I open my phone. The photo is constantly changing whenever your partner sends them and is immediately displayed on your screen.
As I have used the two apps, I have found my connections becoming deeper because I am aware of times when I can be more supportive. I can also stay updated on the various routines of my friends despite our schedules never really aligning. I think it is important to maintain connections, but also be understanding and realistic of everyone’s various lifestyles. I hope these apps help you stay connected with those you love from a distance.