Buying presents is never an easy task, but buying a present for your boyfriend raises the stakes, giving you a whole new level of anxiety. What if your gift sends the wrong message? What if you get him something and he gets you nothing? Or vice versa? First of all, though it may be awkward or uncomfortable, a gift exchange should not make or break your relationship, so let’s not be so dramatic. I’m not a fan of ties or cuff links; boys can buy those themselves. I favor unique gifts whether you are just hooking up or have been dating forever. Here is a guide for every step in your relationship, categorized by songs by Taylor Swift, the queen of boyfriends of course.
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Sparks Fly – The Bucknell Thing
Everyone knows what the “Bucknell thing” is. It’s the guy you’ve been hooking up with all semester, texting and hanging out with obsessively. No, you’re not in a relationship because neither of you will admit you like each other. But, you can still give him a present.
A Funny Card and Candy
Pairing a funny holiday card with candy can be perceived however he wants to see it. You’ll make him laugh without adding any pressure on your questionable relationship status.
Ridiculous Socks
If your guy is an attention seeker, a bro or a dork, he will most likely love these socks from think geek.
$10.99 at www.thinkgeek.com
A Real Hand Job
Since your relationship status is ridiculous, why not acknowledge it by getting him a funny gift? The “hand job” is a hysterical option. See the video below.
2 for $4.95 at www,ineedahandjob.com
Moustache Gingerbread Cookies
These are just fun. You’ll give him an delicious treat while also making him laugh.
www.etsy.com/gingerbreadmustachecookie
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Today was a Fairytale – 0-6 Months
At the beginning of your relationship you may be pinning about your future wedding and signing your first name with his last on your notebook, but overdoing a gift this early is a major no-no.
Bake or Make a Cake
The way to any man’s heart is through his stomach, so why not bake him a cake? This will show him you care and actually took the time to make something for him, extra points if it’s his favorite flavor. If he is a big fan of beer or just a frat boy, try this Pinterest-famous beer can cake. He’ll think you’re the coolest girl around.
A Video Game
After consulting a few guys about this one, a video game is a tricky present. You have to make sure it is compatible with his gaming system and is also the latest version of whatever video game your buying. Get it right though, and he’ll be impressed, if not also totally glued to the screen for the rest of the holiday.
Beer Mugs/Pint Glasses
This is really a low-pressure gift. Even if he doesn’t drink, buying mugs or glasses with something he’s interested in will show him you’ve been listening and provide a keepsake (and useful item) as well.
Bacon Chocolate
Bacon + Chocolate + Boys = Eternal love for you
$10.95 for a box at www.baconfreak.com
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Stay Stay Stay – 6-12 Months
At this point, your relationship is becoming more serious. Maybe you’ve met the parents or maybe your developing stronger feelings. You want to get your boyfriend something that really shows that you’re invested in the relationship and care about him.
A Monogrammed Flask
This makes any man feel important and he will think it’s awesome he has his own personalized flask.
DVD Box Set
A box set of your boyfriend’s favorite movie collection, from Austin Powers to The Avengers, featured here, is a great gift that shows you know what he likes. Throw in some popcorn, candy, and soda and make it a movie marathon that will be a present for the both of you.
L.L. Bean Wicked Good Moccasins
I’m not sure why, but guys seem to be obsessed with these moccasins. They are pretty comfy and since they are basically like the guy version of Uggs, he can be comfortable while still feeling manly.
$69 at www.llbean.com/wickedgoodmoccasins
Man Crate
This takes all of the guesswork out of present buying, and all the fluff and wrapping that guys hate out of the picture. Man crates are organized by personality so you can really tailor it to what your boyfriend likes.
Starting at $49.99 at www.mancrates.com
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Love Story – 1-1/2 Years
At this point in your relationship, you’re committed to your boyfriend and comfortable in your relationship. You want to get him a gift that he will have fun with, will surprise him, or will make him know you want to take things to the next level.
Get Crafty
All those hours you spent crafting for your little are about to pay off. Get your craft on and make something unique for your boyfriend. From a bathrobe with their fraternity letters on it to some custom made mugs/shot glasses to a tee shirt with his favorite sports team logo puffy painted on it. You’ve got all the material, you just need to put it to use.
Beer Brewing Kit
Giving your boyfriend the tools to brew his own beer? Major points. Plus, these come in a variety of flavors so he can make something new every time.
$40 at www.brooklynbrewshop.com
Customizable M&M’s
These customizable m&ms let you write messages on them, whether you want to get all lovey-dovey or be funny. Plus, you can also put them in custom bags or dispensers. If you don’t feel like being creative you can get MLB or NFL themed chocolates.
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Long Live – 2-3 Years
Dress Up
I am a self-proclaimed feminist but I don’t think there is anything wrong with dressing up for your boyfriend. Victoria’s Secret has some fun options. The most important part is to feel comfortable in whatever you end up getting.
Events (Live Nation and Group On)
I always think that the best gift is experience. Check out Live Nation for cool performances or concerts in the area or Group On for a fancy dinner or cooking lessons. Get two so he can bring a friend or you!
Beats Headphones
Though these are a pricey gift, they are super popular and bets are that your boyfriend doesn’t want to splurge to get these for himself. But he will certainly appreciate it if you do!
$200-$300 at www.beatsbydre.com
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Mine – 3-5 Years
At this point in your relationship, your boyfriend is probably like your second half. You know him sometimes better than he knows himself and your starting to get serious about your future. Since you’re secure in your relationship, think of gifts that will last long-term.
Sports Tickets/Paraphernalia
If your guy is a sports fan, think about getting him season tickets to the game, signed paraphernalia, or a vintage jersey.
Flavor Infusing Indoor Rib Grill
Guys who love to grill or just generally love food will be into this gift. It’s not super expensive but will be the gift that keeps giving.
$89 at www.hammacher.com/ribgrill
Beer of the Month Club (or any other “of the Month” club)
This company sends different beers each month, but also you can sign up for popcorn, dorky tee-shirts, or movies each month. This will cater to your boyfriend’s likes and will be a monthly present that will give beyond the holiday season.
Whatever you end up choosing, remember that this is just a guide. Nothing beats knowing a boy well and catering your gift towards what he likes. Happy holiday season and may the odds be ever in your favor!