If there is one word to describe your first semester of college, it’s most likely ‘overwhelming.’ This is the beginning of a completely new chapter in your life, and it’s one that can be really intimidating. However, it’s also the most amazing opportunity to discover your passions and individuality.
Throughout your first semester, one of the most important things to remember is that you are never alone. Everyone is just as nervous as you are, and it is more than okay to ask for help. Even something as simple as doing dishes or washing clothes can take time to learn. College is an experience that will teach you how to navigate adulthood and independence. No matter how much you may think it, no one is judging you or making fun of your mistakes. In fact, they’ve probably been in the exact same boat as you!
With that being said, college is also an amazing time to meet new people! You are all probably going through many of the same things. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there and ask if people want to do something together. College is the perfect opportunity to meet so many different kinds of people and if you’re willing to step a little bit out of your comfort zone, you will eventually find your people.
Something a lot of students forget to do is stay in communication with their families back home. Although you’re trying to be independent and self-sufficient, calling your mom, dad, sister, or grandma is a great habit to get into during this time. Maybe it’s just once a week or maybe it’s 5 times a day, but keeping your family up to date on your new life will mean so much to them. It will make the world of difference for you to have a support system that you can continuously rely on.
A common misconception with college is the idea that you have to love partying to have a good time. While college is full of opportunities to go out, it absolutely does not make or break your college experience. You can equally enjoy a night-in with friends, dinner and a movie, shopping, or anything else you might want! It is completely okay to say no to social events or parties if that’s just not your thing. There is such a wide variety of on-campus activities that you can get involved in to find your niche outside of the bars.
Finally, the biggest piece of advice I can give to help you through your first semester of college is to set aside time for yourself. It can be so easy to get wrapped up in all the new activities, organizations, fun, friends, and excitement surrounding your new life. Prioritizing yourself and spending time alone, however, is a necessary part of maintaining a balanced social and personal life. Whether this means taking a walk, listening to music, journaling, or even just sitting in your room, making time for yourself to rest is essential to your wellbeing.
This is your time. Make friends, make memories, and don’t be afraid to make mistakes. It’s all part of the experience.