Over the past few months, Olivia Dean has captivated TikTok â and, TBH, the internet as a whole. I totally get the hype; The Art of Loving is an incredible album and really shows how enticing it is when R&B, bossa nova, and jazz come together in such a cool, modern way. With that in mind, itâs no surprise that multiple trends and trending audios have emerged as a result of Deanâs (rightfully deserved) popularity. But, I must admit, thereâs one Dean-inspired trend I just canât get behind.Â
The trend, known as the âSaturday nightâ trend, comes from the chorus of Deanâs song âSo Easy (To Fall In Love).â As Dean sings the lyrics, âIâm the perfect mix of Saturday night and the rest of your life,â creators are showing videos or photos of themselves having fun on a night out (for the âSaturday nightâ part), followed by clips of them looking more âwholesomeâ (for the ârest of your lifeâ part). Itâs been circulating the internet for a few weeks now, and honestly? Iâm so over it.Â
Simply put, the trend feels superficial and staged. Now, of course, I understand that most things online are staged, but I canât seem to shake this one off. Itâs offputting to see someone go absolutely wild at the club, and then showcase themselves as an absolute angel. Why do we have to focus on being the âperfect mixâ instead of just being who we really are?
However, in the past week, Iâve clocked that this trend is evolving into something different â something more nuanced and authentic. And for what itâs worth, I much prefer this new version.
What is the new âSaturday nightâ trend?
The new âSaturday nightâ trend simply uses an edited version of Deanâs song. Instead of transitioning from âSaturday nightâ to âthe rest of your life,â the new sound is âthe perfect mix of Saturday night, and the Saturday night, and the Saturday night.â To pair with the trending sound, people are including videos and images of them going out, partying, and straight up having fun â without ever switching to showcase their âwholesomeâ side.Â
Even as someone who is the furthest thing from a partier, I love how the party girls have embraced this trend and made it their own. Theyâre unapologetically showing off who they are â as they should be! â and itâs so refreshing to watch.
The original version of the trend seems to imply that the ideas of âSaturday nightâ and ârest of your lifeâ sit at two ends of a spectrum. Says who? And since when? Sure, my Saturday night may not look like hitting the club and falling asleep with my makeup on, but it also doesnât always look like the squeaky-clean lives portrayed in the second half of the trend, either. When I think of my future and the rest of my life, I cannot fathom the concept of âsettling downâ and not doing what I love, whatever that may be â from making dinner for my friends paired with a movie night, to playing video games and board games with my partner, to traveling whenever I have the time and money. Perhaps I donât enjoy the original Saturday night trend because, like the party girls, my standard Saturday night is already what I hope the rest of my life to be.