This week Her Campus got to catch up with a lovely, campus cutie called Elvira Eriksson. She is a third year, studying politics and IR, and is originally from Sweden. I started off by asking how writing for The Tab was going and to my surprise sheâs had a lot of press and interest in her writing. She told me she got asked by her editor to write a piece on the whole accommodation issue first year students of Aberdeen University were experiencing. In the end she had wrote two pieces on this issue and eventually got some interest from the BBC. They have asked to use her contacts/resources for research and are using her articles on an upcoming show. Unfortunately, I cannot reveal much information on this issue because it is all hush hush for the time being. However, keep your eyes peeled on the news programmes as you will see Elviraâs handy work put to good use.
I then went on to ask about her being part of the yoga society. She confessed she hasnât been attending much this year due to her busy third year schedule. However, she states that people should join and that the teacher is âvery motivationalâ.
âOnce I was in a painful yoga positionâ. He then went up to Elvira and asked her to continue in this position and before she could moan in agony he replied: âpain is part of life; itâs an experience we all have to go throughâ. Nonetheless he made her continue â OUCH! â That does sound errm motivational.
Elvira gave me some good advice when addressing long distance in my tinder article so I asked more about where these wise words came from. She told me that her and her boyfriend have been together for three years and long distance, as always, had to be on the cards. When they first met they lived in two completely different towns in Sweden and then she went to university in Aberdeen. âSo yea long distance has always been there for usâ. However, she states that they are now experiencing a complete adjustment because he has now moved to Aberdeen so it is the first time in three years distance is not an issue. She loves it at the moment but confesses it is a big adjustment. As she states they were not the ânormalâ couple so they have never had the ânormalâ arguments. In light of it though they seem to be working well and âhes a great cook, so it means I get nice food nowâ â bonus! However, âhe does restrict my intake of chocolate as it will ruin my appetite for his cookingâ. Haha well thatâs not always a bad thing shows her cares for you! I then asked her, for the readers of this magazine, as she seems to be the pro for long distance, what advice can she suggest. âYou really need to make your own rulesâ as well like she said they werenât the normal couple so you canât go by the generic couple/relationship guidelines. Also âhonesty is the most important aspect.â You have to have trust, as this becomes a big issue for people in long distant relationshipsâ. As long as youâre honest and trust each other the rest comes with it.
Finally, I asked what the big adjustment was from living in Sweden to Scotland was. âThe most difficult was saying trousers instead of pantsâ â haha well I did not see that one being the biggest issue. âoh and understanding the Scottish accentâ. She told me that in one of her first sociology lectures she thought the lecturer (with a Scottish accent) said Carole Marx instead of Karl Marx. âI actually thought for a while that Karl Marx had an academic wife â itâs a miracle Iâve got this far with my academic career.â She then went on to say if I still donât understand I just nod and smile. Well donât worry Elvira I sometimes have to do that too.Â