Buying presents is never an easy task, but buying a present for your boyfriend raises the stakes, giving you a whole new level of anxiety. What if your gift sends the wrong message? What if you get him something and he gets you nothing? Or vice versa? First of all, though it may be awkward or uncomfortable, a gift exchange should not make or break your relationship, so let’s not be so dramatic. I’m not a fan of ties or cuff links; boys can buy those themselves. I favor unique gifts whether you are just hooking up or have been dating forever. Here is a guide for every step in your relationship, categorized by songs by Taylor Swift, the queen of boyfriends of course.