How to Snapchat Flirt Like a Pro

3. DON’T Take too Many Selfies (Only a few Here and There!)

While it’s perfectly okay and even encouraged (see no. 2) to take pretty selfies, make sure you don’t go overboard.

“Anyone can take selfies in the mirror,” says Tyler Young, dating coach and owner of Attractology. “Be mysterious, draw the guy out and let him pursue you.  Try a picture of a menu of your favorite dimly lit restaurant, posing the question, ‘Happy hour soon?’”

Guys love a good mystery! Another way to appear mystifying is by snapping a pic of your turned-on TV screen in a darkened living room. Caption it: “Watching a movie all by my lonesome. Come join?”

4. DO Steal His Heart With Amazing Cooking

We simply can’t stress it enough—guys love food. Always have, always will. Nothing wrong with charming him by means of the kitchen.

“[If you’re] cooking him dinner, why not snap a shot of what he'll be getting for dessert; perhaps a sexy chocolate soufflé or chocolate-covered strawberries?” Spira says.

One word: yum. What guy wouldn’t zoom over to your place pronto after receiving that kind of snap?! And don’t limit yourself to dessert; give him a peek of the main course, too. You’ll have him eating out the palm of your hand (literally).


Snapchat is a modern, totally cool way to flirt with your crush. Heed the advice of these experts and start sending spectacular snaps. He’ll be yours before you can say, “Did you like my snap?”