Let me be clear: When I say “relationships,” I’m not talking hardcore, madly-in-love, soulmate type relationships. While this list may also encompass said relationships, I’m also talking that semi-monogamous fling, study buddy-turned-hookup partner, and even the infamous one night stand. Because, as a “knowledgeable” senior (I use that term loosely), I’ve realized there are things to be learned from each hookup, crush, and (in retrospect) bad decision.
1. That bi-curious phase…was just a phase. If you feel the need to experiment in college, go for it. This is the time to let go of those inhibitions and go wild, if you so desire. More likely than not, you’ll experience that rubber-band effect where you zing right back and decide that trying an alternative lifestyle…just wasn’t for you.
2. You know how to work it. The less-important flings in your college career can teach you one of the most important, self-satisfying lessons you’ll ever learn: you do, in fact, have “lady game.” This is demonstrated through your ability to meet – and consequently dazzle – that cutie in history class, or the hot guy you spotted from across the bar. So be confident and use that lady game, ‘cause it can definitely take you far.
3. The “bad boy” act doesn’t cut it. While it may be fun to go after that stereotypical bad boy, being cute and edgy only gets you so far. If he insists on making you chase after him – as many “bad boys” do – it’s not worth it. The guy in your life should be treating you with respect, not involving you in his childish cat-and-mouse game.
4. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Though some of you will argue this is untrue – and there probably are some exceptions – I’ve unfortunately and painstakingly come to this conclusion. If he cheats on you once and promises never to do it again…well, he probably will.
5. There’s a whole lotta fish in the sea. I know this is corny, but it’s true! If something doesn’t work out with one guy, time to move onto the next interest. And remember, college is not the end-all: the man of your dreams could be waiting for you outside those university walls.