A lot of people think their RA only cares about rules and being in charge. In most cases, that is the farthest thing from the truth. Here are the top five reasons to give your RA a break.
Most RA’s actually care
In general, RA’s have a big reason they wanted to become an RA. Whether they had a hard freshman year, their RA helped them a lot, or they struggled with something other college students frequently struggle with, RA’s want to have the job they have. It is too stressful a job to not be there for an important reason.
The work is extensive and often unrewarding
There is so much behind the scenes work residents don’t always get to see. Planning boards and door tags, staying up late with residents in time of need, paperwork after incidents, more paperwork for the on-campus police the next day…the list goes on and on. RA’s do a lot.
RA’s don’t make the rules; they just have to enforce them
RA’s might think a lot of the rules are dumb too, but they didn’t make them–they just have to enforce them. If you have a real problem with some of the rules, take it up with the RLC. On the flip side, a lot of the rules are there on purpose. Some of them might seem like they are just there to annoy you, but each rule is designed to create a better, safer environment for the hall residents.
They aren’t in it for the money
RA’s do not make nearly enough money for their job to be worthwhile. The pay they receive is not equal to the energy they spend on dealing with crazy parents, residents, residence life and more.
They went through hours of training
Your RA spent literal weeks of training going over ton of scenarios all so they can be prepared to help you best in your hour of need. They are ready for all hell to break loose at any time. They are basically superheroes that are specifically there for you.
Even if you don’t see eye to eye with your RA, keep this in mind the next time you see them. Maybe even say thanks for all they do.