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To: Cassidy Komar

Elizabeth Keegan Student Contributor, West Chester University
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at West Chester chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.

Some friendships become so much more than friendship. They become family, comfort, laughter, support, and the kind of connection that carries you through both the hardest and happiest seasons of life. That is exactly what you have been to me, Cassidy. This year would not have been the same without you, and I honestly don’t know how I would have gotten through so much of it without your love and friendship.

Cassidy, thank you for being my best friend, my big, and one of the most important people in my life. Having someone who can be all of those things at once is rare, and I never take it for granted. You have been one of the biggest blessings in my life this year, and I hope you know how deeply appreciated you are.

Thank you for always being there for me, especially during the moments when I needed someone the most. When I got cheated on, when I felt hurt, embarrassed, and blindsided, you were there for me without hesitation. You listened to every rant, every tearful conversation, every late-night overthinking spiral, and every moment where I felt like I was questioning everything. You never made me feel dramatic or like too much. Instead, you reminded me of my worth when I was struggling to remember it myself.

And when I got dumped on my birthday—something that could have completely ruined a day that was supposed to be special—you stepped in and made sure I wasn’t alone in that pain. You made sure I still felt cared for, celebrated, and loved despite everything happening around me. What could have become one of the worst memories of the year became something I got through because of you. I will never forget that.

Thank you for opening your home to me and letting me sleep on your couch when I needed comfort, distraction, and a place to just exist without having to explain myself. That may seem like a simple gesture, but it meant so much more than that. It showed me that you are the kind of person who truly shows up for the people you love. You create safe spaces for people, and I was lucky enough to experience that firsthand.

Thank you for being the kind of friend who always knows how to make me laugh, even after the worst days. Somehow, no matter how upset or stressed I was, you could shift the mood and make everything feel lighter. You have this gift of bringing joy into difficult moments, and that is something so special.

Some of my favorite memories this year are because of you. Our time in Myrtle will always hold such a special place in my heart. The laughs, the chaos, the late-night talks, the beach memories, the inside jokes, the pictures, and the moments where we were just completely present and happy—I’ll always treasure all of it. Those are the kinds of memories that stay with someone forever.

And honestly, it’s not just the big trips or exciting moments. Some of the best memories are the ordinary ones—random hangouts, sitting around talking, laughing over nothing, spontaneous plans, and the comfort of just being together. You make everyday moments feel fun and meaningful, and that says so much about the kind of person you are.

As my big, thank you for leading by example and always making me feel supported. You’ve shown me what confidence, kindness, and genuine friendship look like. You’ve made me feel welcomed, valued, included, and cared for in ways that meant more than you probably realize. Having you as my big made everything feel easier and so much more special, and I truly couldn’t have asked for anyone better.

Thank you for always believing in me and wanting the best for me. You celebrate my wins like they’re your own, encourage me when I doubt myself, and sit beside me through the losses and messy moments, too. You are the kind of person who stays consistent, and that loyalty means everything.

You bring so much joy, energy, and warmth into every room you walk into. You make people feel included, comfortable, and loved just by being yourself. You have a way of making people feel seen, and that is such a rare quality. It’s one of the many reasons so many people love being around you.

Most of all, thank you for being you. Thank you for your heart, your humor, your honesty, your strength, and your friendship. Thank you for standing beside me during some of the hardest moments of this year and helping make it brighter than it ever could have been otherwise.

I’m so lucky to have you in my life, Cassidy. You are more than a best friend and more than a big—you are family to me.

Thank you for everything this year. Thank you for the laughs, the memories, the couch, the talks, the loyalty, and the love.

I appreciate you endlessly, and I love you so much.

Elizabeth Keegan

West Chester '27

Hi guys! My name is Elizabeth Keegan! I mostly go by Liz, and I am a junior majoring in secondary education with a focus on English here at West Chester. Some background that helps me be a part of Her Campus is that in high school, I helped with the online paper and also wrote my school’s new channels announcements in middle school!

A few things about me are that I am from Ambler, PA, and went to high school at Hatboro-Horsham. I have six siblings, and one of them is my twin brother. And we are the youngest! I have two dogs named Nando and Hazel, and they are my favorite pals!

Some of my personal interests include painting, reading every book I can, going out with friends, and collecting jewelry. My top priority is making time for my sister, as she is my absolute best friend, and we do almost everything together. I am part of Her Campus because I have a strong passion for writing. It helps me express how I feel and lets me decompress after long days. I write a lot in my free time, but I'm especially excited to start writing for this column! I hope whoever reads this enjoys my hot takes!