It’s March, spring is finally here, and I just got back from an awesome trip to Italy. On top of that, it’s been 78 and sunny at Wake (which should be enough to put anyone in a good mood). But for some reason, I just don’t feel that relaxed or happy-go-lucky.
I don’t think it’s just because I go to Work Forest and therefore can anticipate being stressed at all times … I think there’s something deeper going on. Something mysterious is in the air. My heart quickens as I hear Tory Burch boots clicking behind me in the halls of Carswell. I feel mascara-smothered eyes size me up and down as I order my skinny vanilla latte. Something just doesn’t feel quite right. Are you with me, collegiettes? So what is it?
Well, I think I figured it out. It just might be the biggest and most important #wfufreshmenproblem of all time, so important that some may even call it a #wfusophomoreproblem … or even a plain ‘ole #wfustudentproblem. Room Selection 2012.
This year, us freshmen didn’t get to choose where we lived or who we lived with. Now’s our chance to finally live with our BFFs or sorority sisters (or at least someone we don’t completely hate). It all sounds great, but things can get complicated when you have to face that your best friend, whom you adore, is not exactly as neat as you are …
It’s important to make sure the person you put down on your room selection form is habit compatible. In order to prevent feelings getting hurt next year, now is the time to bring up those uncomfy questions. Wait, do you snore? Is it okay if my boyfriend visits? Don’t you think the walk from Polo is kind of far? It’s better to put it all out there now, that way you can realize sooner rather than later if you really should room together or not.
I want to make sure all of us collegiettes know that there’s nothing wrong with going random or single. If you truly feel you’re the kind of person who lives better with someone they don’t know, or just doesn’t live well with anyone at all, then feel free to go rando or single! You’re the one who’s going to be living there, so make sure it’s the best scenario for you. Remember, you know yourself best.
Sophomore year seems like an exciting and exhilarating change from freshman year. Though I’m not looking forward to leaving my beloved South Hall (hint: yes I did live there this year), I am excited to finally live with girls I love. Cross your fingers that we all get our first-choice selections (or at least not themed housing). Happy rooming!