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Union Man Crush: Alphonso Ross

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at VUU chapter.

Alphonso Ross is a graduating senior, Criminal Justice major from the Bronx, NY. He is Mr. Virginia Union University, a member of Kappa Alpha Psi Fraternity, Inc., and featured in the Virginia Union University president report magazine 2016 issue.

 

HC: What qualities do you look for in a girl?

AR: A down-to-earth, personality, good sense of humor, affectionate, gotta have morals, and just a humble girl overall.

 

HC: What do you wear in bed?

AR: Just boxers, rarely a shirt as well

 

HC: What do you think are your top three assets?

AR: I’m a gentleman, I’m humble, I’m compassionate, I’m funny, idk am I funny?

 

HC: What makes you nervous?

AR: Being unprepared

HC: What is a deal breaker in a relationship, and a must have?

AR: A deal breaker would be someone who doesn’t pay attention, or doesn’t have a good sense of humor. Or someone who’s extremely full of themself. A must have would be a woman with goals, they have to aspire to be something in life.

 

HC: What’s one thing that people don’t know about you?

AR: One thing that people don’t know about me is that I’m a shy person and I’m currently working on getting out of that habit.

 

HC: Name a fetish?

AR: A girl that smells good, I love perfume on a female.

 

HC: If given a chance, which female actress would you take away for the weekend?

AR: The weekend? Megan Good, baby baby.

 

HC: Define a sexy woman.

AR: A sexy woman is someone who is smart, not just book smart, street smart too. Someone independent, affectionate, hard working, and ambitious.

 

HC: What is your favorite body part on a woman and why?

AR: Eyes, I don’t know for some reason I like big eyes. It’s the first thing I look at when I see someone.

 

HC: Do girls who make the first move intimidate you?

AR: No, it’d be flattering actually if a female were to approach me. I’m usually too scared usually.

 

HC: Which is better to listen to your heart or your brain?

AR: I say listen to your heart first, and if it doesn’t go well, then listen to your brain.

 

HC: What are your three weaknesses?

AR: Being too kind, my bed I could really sleep the whole day away, and self- management, I tend to put other people and things before myself.

 

HC: How do let a girl know that you’re interested in her?

AR: I just ask to spend more time with her.

 

HC: What’s the longest relationship you’ve been in ?

AR: 5 years.

 

HC: Are you a romantic person?

AR: Yes, I always thought it was nice to make whomever you’re dealing with feel good, I just don’t see why not.

 

HC: Is breaking up really hard to do and why?

AR: No, because when you know your worth and compare it to your situation, it shouldn’t be that hard.

 

HC: What’s the most awkward date you’ve ever been on?

AR: A movie date, the girl was trying to kiss me in the middle of the movie, and I wasn’t having it. It was a miscommunication, but long story short, she got dubbed.

 

HC: In a relationship, are you a giver or receiver?

AR: It depends what we’re talking about winks but no I’m a receiver, like I take into consideration everything that’s brought to me, and I act accordingly.

 

HC: Have you ever experienced heartbreak if so what happened?

AR: Yeah, shawty played me. Long story short, she went away for college after graduation and I didn’t. Didn’t work out well. I got left in the cold.

 

HC: What is your preference a submissive or dominant female?

AR: I like a balance, but I would say I’m more dominant.

 

HC: Any advice for Union women?

AR: Don’t be the girl who needs a man, be the girl a man needs. 

Chanel Bird is a sophomore at Virginia Union Universty, majoring in Mass Communications concentrating in Public Relations. Passionate about keeping positive vibes and having good times. Her love for makeup, the color pink, glitter, and smiling is a parallel to her optimistic, and amiable nature, as well as her daily presentation. You can follow her on Twitter & Instagram @chanelmilann