Since the beginning of time, women have had
a power over men that could bring even the strongest to his knees. In past decades, women have held a sense of mystery that have kept men guessing and questioning, “Who’s that lady?” We have screamed, shouted, demanded and protested the world for our respect, and we as women have claimed it. But as we have arrived at present day, have women lost that sense of mystery of “Who’s that woman behind the clothes?” Have women lost the respect they once had for themselves?
Current fashions such as skirts, dresses, wearing bandeau bras as shirts, crop tops and more show women that “less is more,” meaning the fewer clothes you wear, the more attention you attract. But is less really more when it comes to the respect a woman has for herself? I think woman want to show off the right they have to be able to show off their body but do it in ways that don’t show they respect themselves.
Ladies, we need to go back to a time when our dress may have been a bit conservative but it also was sexy. That’s where both the mystery and respect comes in. Nowadays, we let it all hang out and don’t give men a sense of wonder and suspicion. It’s ok to show off a little skin here and there. It’s ok to accentuate certain physical assets, but it’s not ok to just let everything show. Women need to realize men make judgments based upon what they see, and if they see a woman dressed half naked, they get the idea that she is easy and deserving of disrespect.
I think as women, we need to tone down our fashion. It’s ok to want to stand out and want to express individuality, as you will see there are ways to stand out without hanging out. Here are several ideas ladies can follow to bring back the mystery and respect.
Ladies, whether you’re rocking a Kardashian
booty or a pancake, it’s not ok to wear dresses and skirts that stop literally under your butt cheeks. That look is NOT and I repeat NOT attractive, cute, sexy; none of the above. When you wear clothes like that it’s basically telling a man, come bend me over right now and take what you please. It shows you lack respect for yourself. It’s ok to have a little length to your skirts and dresses, not necessarily knee length but just enough to give you the confidence to walk around and not worry whether people can see up you back side.
Jeans, pants, slacks or whatever you want to call them also have rules that should be followed. It’s not necessary to have jeans that are so tight they leave marks on your waist or give you a “muffin top”; if your love handles and stomach are flowing over your pants, then you should consider a size up. When it comes to jeans, find jeans that fit comfortably, but can also accent or enhance your curves. It doesn’t look sloppy and it can improve your confidence.
Now when it comes to the breast, women usually want bigger, but bigger doesn’t mean let then hang in every direction. Shirts that have too much of a low cut give men the full view. Shirts that are too tight, just overall look painful, not just to wear but also to look at. There are more ways to bring out your breasts without actually bringing them out; shirts that compliment your breast and a good bra can make any size boobs look amazing.
Finally, ladies God gave us a gift of seduction,Â
mystery, sensuality and overall beauty. Instead of throwing it out the door, we need to take full advantage of what we have and use it to the best of our ability. We don’t need to cover up completely, but we need to keep men guessing. We need to have men wondering “who’s that lady?” But overall, we have to take pride in ourselves. Its one thing to hold your head high but it’s another when you hold your head high knowing not only do you respect yourself, but you also have the respect of others. Men will hold you at a higher standard that way. It isn’t hard; it’s just a matter of taking the time to treat yourself like the queens we all truly are.