Roommates are almost an inevitable part of college. Whether this is your first time having a roommate, you just got a new one, or you’ve had the same roomie for a while it is important to remember to always have good roommate etiquette. No matter how you feel about your roommate, you should always remember to respect them and treat them as you would want to be treated. Keep in mind that they are paying to live there as well, so it is best to have a happy home. Here are a few rules of roommate etiquette:
Keep it clean
This is fundamental. Make sure to always clean up after yourself and keep the common areas (living room, kitchen, or bathroom if you share one) as clean as possible. Maybe suggesting a cleaning schedule between you and your roommate(s) will make things easier if you don’t see them putting forth initiative to do their part of the cleaning.
Replace items after you finish them
If you and your roommate(s) have things that you share amongst each other (cleaning supplies, spices, food, etc.) be sure to take turns buying them. If your roommate bought something for everyone to share and it runs out, be sure to replace it when it’s your turn so one person isn’t stuck buying the same thing over and over.
Talk it out
If you have a problem with something your roommate(s) have done or isn’t doing, be sure talk to them first. Don’t post it on social media, don’t tell your friends, don’t leave sticky notes, don’t text it, just tell them face to face. By respectfully coming to your roommate(s) in person it leaves little room for miscommunications which often result in a conflict. Sharing a space with someone while there is a division is not very comfortable.
Ask before you use something
Even if you and your roommate have a very open policy when it comes to sharing personal things, it is always good to ask before you use something of theirs. You never know if they were saving the last bit of milk in the fridge for themselves, or if they are very particular about certain items. Just play it safe and ask.
Control your guests
You have the right to have guests, but make sure they are not being too loud or using your roommates’ things. It is always good to be considerate of your roommate when you have company to avoid making them upset or uncomfortable.
Be mindful of your noise level
When playing music, having company, or talking on the phone be mindful of your noise levels. If you know your roommate goes to bed early or is studying for a huge test be sure to keep the excess noise to a minimum.
Spend time with your roomie
Your roommate(s) don’t have to be your best friends but it is nice to spend some time with them. Maybe inviting them out with you, or even watching a movie together is great quality time to spend with your roomie.
HCXO!