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His Campus: 6 Ways to Have Her Heart in Your Pocket

This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at Valdosta chapter.

Guys, let’s be real. Times have changed drastically, but for the most part, the things girls love have remained the same. If you’re having trouble on winning over your crush’s heart, take a look at the following list! I promise, she will be eating out of the palm of your hand. TRUST ME!

1. Approach her with confidence, not arrogance.

A girl loves it when a guy has some buoyancy about himself. A romantic, sweet and all around sincere gentleman gives us the chills! If you can smooth-talk her but respect her at the same time, you pretty much have her! As long as what you say to her is relatively genuine, you may spark her interest. Own it!

2. Cook for her.

We all love to get wined and dined, but what lady doesn’t want to experience a meal made especially for her by her man? Pssh, I’d be lying if I said I didn’t! If it’s a nice steak dinner and a salad, or even Hamburger Helper, it would be greatly appreciated. It’s the thought that counts, right?

3. Let your relationship be known.

Girls may say they don’t care about what other people think all the time. Eight out of ten times that is a GIGANTIC fib. When it comes down to her man, a girl wants the world to know, “Hey, that’s MY MAN! Don’t get it twisted!”

4. Be creative.

Don’t settle for the cliché dates. Dinner and a movie is a great option, but we like to be astounded by how much you cared to plan an amazing date. Go above and beyond! Show her that you put effort into the evening. For the record, listen to what she’s interested in or her “If I ever had the chance to…” speeches. It’s the little things we adore the most!

5. Smell Yummy.

Lawd, a great smelling guy melts EVERY girl’s heart! We love burying our faces in your neck and getting big whiffs of manly cologne. Having great hygiene is a massive plus in our books; it shows that you care and take care of yourself. Who wouldn’t want a clean, sexy man?

6. Be yourself!

It’s nothing girls get turned off by more than a guy who is a FAKE. In my opinion, it’s obvious when a guy is pretending. It just won’t look natural and most of us have that woman’s intuition and will kick you to the curb quickly. Being yourself is sexy and will get you the most luck. Embrace yourself.

Hopefully now you’ve gotten an idea of ways to impress the ladies. Although there are many more things that we love, maybe these will get your foot in the door. Now on your marks, get set, GO get your girl!

I'm from Darien, Georgia . (McIntosh County) I'm a junior at Valdosta State University with a major in Early Childhood Education. I absolutely adore fashion trends, celebrity scoop, and everything in between !
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