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How can I hint to a constant hook-up that i’d like to start dating?
Well in a situation like this its all about the hints, and seeing how well or in what way they are received. You never know, this kid might be on the same page and may not know what to do or say in order to tell you that he’s thinking of exclusiveness. If i had to give one piece of ‘test-run’ advice it would be public affection. If you’re with this boy and you are together frequently, then it would be effective to test his reactions to public lovin’. If he is willing to kiss you in front of a bunch of other “potential hook-ups” then you can be much more certain that youre the apple of his eye. That’s about as big of a hint as you can give. If thats not your style, then try simply asking, “so what are we?” Thats always a fun conversation.
Is it weird for a girl to initiate a conversation over facebook if we’ve never really met?
On some levels it might be a little sketchy, depending on certain circumstance. If you have never met this boy and on top of that never really made eye contact with him then I would not advise popping up on his Facebook. If the situation involves no formal introduction but plenty of seductive eye contact, meaning he has noticed you and would be able to pick you out of a crowd, then go ahead and drop him a line. He must be one damn good look mutha-trucka, but every now and then it’s more than exciting, as a dude, to see a girl going out of her way to talk to me. It’s flattering and it’s cute. Just be careful of the content, keep the first few official FB chats short and simple. These will let him know you’re interested. You’ve already come half way, wait for him to do the rest.