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6 Ways to Engage in Civility on Grounds

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Nicole Patterson Student Contributor, University of Virginia
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Francesca Lee Student Contributor, University of Virginia
This article is written by a student writer from the Her Campus at UVA chapter and does not reflect the views of Her Campus.



1.  Say hello!

Make someone’s day by creating eye contact and taking the time to say good morning to everyone you see.  You never know: maybe you will run into that cutie you saw at a party later!

2. Make sure your friends get home safely late at night.

Whether they are heading home from a party or the library, texting someone a quick “Home?” shows that you care about them.  Better yet – walk them home if you can.

3. Don’t tell side stories when someone else is telling a story!

Ever been trying to tell a hilarious story and realized that your friends are having their own conversation on the side? It doesn’t feel good, and it is disrespectful.

4. We have all heard it before, but NO phones at meals. 

Why take the time to eat with someone if you are not having a conversation with them?

5. Guys – do not “late night text” girls. 

We all know what it means when you text us at 2 in the morning asking what’s up.  And no, we’re not interested.  If you really like someone, take her to breakfast instead.

6. Send thank you notes!

Send them ALWAYS for EVERYTHING.  A nice dinner with a friend’s parents, a birthday present, a thoughtful act from someone – take just a moment to acknowledge someone’s kindness.
 
Why should you follow these rules?

Caring is contagious! When you smile at someone walking across grounds or take the time to hold the door open for someone, others will be inclined to reciprocate the kindness. And at a time when many people are particularly stressed out, we could all use a nice gesture here and there!

Francesca Lee is a fourth year majoring in sociology with a minor in media studies at the University of Virginia. This summer, she developed a passion for TV production after interning at WETA, the public television station for DC and the greater metro area.  Throughout the summer, Francesca researched, wrote and produced several WETA Around Town segments about the local arts programs and graffiti murals in DC.  As the new campus correspondent for Her Campus UVa, she is working to create video content for the UVa branch to supplement the written content.  This spring, she hopes to study abroad in Denmark and expand her knowledge of international broadcasting and advertising. Francesca also gives historical and admissions tours to visitors and prospective students at UVa and is a member of Alpha Chi Omega Sorority.