Like a clingy boyfriend, majors can be one of the things that you just can’t escape. It can get tiring having people ask what it is you want to do for the rest of your life, I know! But then that moment comes along when you finally decide on a path that’s unique to you that can make the future so much more exciting and reassuring. However, if you are one of the many people who haven’t reached that decision, then fear not because here are 5 reasons why it’s okay to not know your major.
1. It’s OKAY to be torn between several majors.
Life is for experimenting and making mistakes. Statistically speaking, college undergrads change their majors at least 4-5 times during their college careers. Don’t rush into something because you feel like you need to have a decision made, take time to know yourself and your passions. And if in the end you can’t choose between two dreams, then pursue them both because that will make your life that much more interesting and extraordinary.
2. It may not feel like it, but you still have lots of time
Although at the time it really sucks, having general classes can actually give you an advantage with time. It allows you to maybe experiment with courses that you can either love or hate. It also gives you that first year to not feel so pressured about declaring a major because regardless there are Gen Eds to complete. Don’t spend your time stressing over things you can’t control. Overall have as much fun as you can those first years of college because they truly are the best years.
3. You Mature in College and so do your dreams
It’s a common thing to go into college wanting one thing and graduating with a completely different mindset. Whether you’ve been that person who’s always known they have wanted to be a doctor or not, life has a way of working itself out. Try to remember that tons of successful people have been in your shoes and everyone has something they can contribute to the world in one way or another.
4. Success Takes Time
College will bring a lot of ups and downs but just know that everything that happens will allow you to learn and grow. Be patient with yourself and try to give yourself a shot to figure out what it is you want out of a career and life. The more people attempt to rush into things, the more likely it is that they will change their minds regardless.
5. Not knowing brings learning and growth
At the end of the day whether you know your major from the start of college or not, follow your heart and always pursue what will make you happiest. Picture what you would be doing if money weren’t a factor and society wasn’t pressuring you into fulfilling a certain gender role. College is a wild time of discovery and growth so enjoy every second while it’s here.